My position on this issue has evolved. There are things you "can" do in this world, but "shouldn't" do. This fits that description. Yes - the link was publicly available to anyone on the internet, but that doesn't mean the link should be copied on a message board.

I've apologized to Steve.

what is interesting about seeing elmhurst steve's wife? so that if she's pretty, you'd say, "Oh well...Steve just...uh...outkicked his coverage! Yah! Cos he's a douche!" or if she's got any slight imperfection, you'd just criticize it? Or if she's unattractive to you, you'd say "Oh well she's ugly anyway!" I thought we were leaving family/wives out of all of this anyway.

steve can stoop to whatever level he wants to, he already has...let's not join him from now on.