Joe Orr Road Rod wrote:
Boilermaker Rick wrote:
Why is it always so extreme with this?
There are some guys that just don't like it when women are called fat and ugly because people think they suck at their job or they are mad that they treated a sports celebrity(who probably would treat you like garbage) wrong.
That's not it, Rick. It's her whining and acting like a victim all the time, while insisting that she's "strong". She loves the Twitter Game of Beefs. But she strictly wants to be an offensive specialist.
Look, my mother was a person who showed fondness with mild insults or what might be called "ball busting". She had what I would call a very "dude-ish" way of communicating. Probably because she was the youngest kid and her closest siblings were brothers. She was a tough ass tomboy. He nickname as a kid was "Butch", for God's sake. She was hard to offend too, though. Of course, as a kid you pick up behaviors from your parents. It was natural for me to use the communication style I learned from my mother when I began to like girls. It took awhile for me to realize that this wasn't universal and most girls didn't care for it. I wanted to get laid so I had to change my style.
My dad, on the other hand, was a very sensitive guy. He would carry around an insult like baggage. And my sister was the same way. However, this didn't stop them from enjoying a little ball-busting from the offensive side. But God forbid it should come the other way and they would pout and/or become infuriated. My mom used to say, "If you're gonna pitch, you better learn how to catch." And that's how I see Julie. She loves to dish it, but she just can't take it. She's got her snarky Gen-X thing going where she sits in judgment of those around her (See Exhibit A: Train Car Tweets). But, oh no, don't let her be on the receiving end! Judge not, lest ye be judged. I think that's Matthew. Confirmation, Seacrest?
She is a walking contradiction for a lot of things but it seems like people are acting like anyone who has sympathy for a woman being called fat and ugly is simply a man apologist who wants to be "Mr. Nice Guy".
I'm pretty sure I'd hate to be around her too but I also don't like it when any woman, unless really deserved, is called names like that. There will always be an excuse for a woman to be called names like that.
I don't think Julie is that strong. It's obvious that these things get to her. Yet, many continue to constantly attack her in mean ways because of how she treated their good friend Patrick Kane. I mean, pretty much everyone but me is wrong and stubborn at times. It doesn't mean that everyone deserves to be treated constantly in mean and hurtful ways.
I just can't help but read this thread and imagine it in a way where if it was a friend or relative of mine, even if she was completely wrong, that I would be upset at how she is being treated.