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CSFMB East Rd. 1 - (6)BD vs. (11)Regular Reader
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Author:  The Original Kid Cairo [ Thu Mar 12, 2009 8:30 am ]
Post subject:  Re: CSFMB East Rd. 1 - (6)BD vs. (11)Regular Reader

I find BD to be one of the least likeable guys here. I'm sure he cares.

Author:  Darkside [ Thu Mar 12, 2009 1:32 pm ]
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I voted for RR. Always keep cool in a debate, fires hard when necessary but never a low blow. I have a lot of respect for RR, who is becoming one of my favorite posters.
That being said, BD is getting a bad rap. He seems pretty cool to me in general. I don't always agree but it turns out I don't agree with most people most of the time anyway.

Author:  Ryno's Wife [ Thu Mar 12, 2009 2:50 pm ]
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I dig BD, but he's very political. I really dislike political discussions here (or anywhere, for that matter) so I don't read too many of his posts :(

RR cracks me up :)

And so it goes...

Author:  Regular Reader [ Thu Mar 12, 2009 2:58 pm ]
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I actually appreciate what BD brings to the board. I don't agree with him often(ever?), but he's OK with me. Cable/Satellite has FoxNews, the CSFMB has BD to toss out the talking points in at least a polite, a matter of fact manner.

And RW, in my freer days "cracks me up" would've sounded dangerously close to "guy-friend" territory :evil: When I was single, I hated "guy-friends"...always in the damn way. :lol:

Author:  Dr. Kenneth Noisewater [ Thu Mar 12, 2009 3:07 pm ]
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First guy to send me a bottle of Frank's RedHot Buffalo Wing sauce gets my vote. :chef:

Author:  The Original Kid Cairo [ Thu Mar 12, 2009 3:09 pm ]
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Hey Regular Reader...
Chris Rock wrote:
I got a few female friends but all by accident. Every female friend I got is some woman I was tryin to fuck, made a wrong turn somewhere, and wound up in the "FRIEND ZONE."

Author:  Regular Reader [ Thu Mar 12, 2009 3:10 pm ]
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Dr. Kenneth Noisewater wrote:
First guy to send me a bottle of Frank's RedHot Buffalo Wing sauce gets my vote. :chef:


What is this red-flavored( :wink: ) water stuff of which you speak?

Author:  doug - evergreen park [ Thu Mar 12, 2009 3:14 pm ]
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wait...regular reader is a woman? where the hell have i been?

Author:  Regular Reader [ Thu Mar 12, 2009 3:14 pm ]
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The Original Kid Cairo wrote:
Hey Regular Reader...
Chris Rock wrote:
I got a few female friends but all by accident. Every female friend I got is some woman I was tryin to fuck, made a wrong turn somewhere, and wound up in the "FRIEND ZONE."


Exactly. Of course the only thing worse were the 'guys' who made their livings in the friend zone....blocking. Bastards.

Author:  The Original Kid Cairo [ Thu Mar 12, 2009 3:15 pm ]
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Regular Reader wrote:
The Original Kid Cairo wrote:
Hey Regular Reader...
Chris Rock wrote:
I got a few female friends but all by accident. Every female friend I got is some woman I was tryin to fuck, made a wrong turn somewhere, and wound up in the "FRIEND ZONE."


Exactly. Of course the only thing worse were the 'guys' who made their livings in the friend zone....blocking. Bastards.

Yeah, that's some gay shit.

Author:  Regular Reader [ Thu Mar 12, 2009 3:21 pm ]
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The Original Kid Cairo wrote:
Yeah, that's some gay shit.


Never really thought of it as gay, just pitiful. The dumb-asses thought that they still had shots, until a bit of clarity was provided. I still laugh at a few of them from time to time.

Author:  doug - evergreen park [ Thu Mar 12, 2009 3:22 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: CSFMB East Rd. 1 - (6)BD vs. (11)Regular Reader

if you haven't kissed by the end of "date" 3. you are in the friend zone forever.

Author:  Regular Reader [ Thu Mar 12, 2009 3:25 pm ]
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doug - evergreen park wrote:
if you haven't kissed by the end of "date" 3. you are in the friend zone forever.


"Date 3"? Hell by "date 3" I always thought it should have been party time. I guess its a generational thing...together with a "morally casual attitude". :lol:

Author:  The Original Kid Cairo [ Thu Mar 12, 2009 3:27 pm ]
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doug - evergreen park wrote:
if you haven't kissed by the end of "date" 3. you are in the friend zone forever.

And that's the unfortunate thing about the friend zone. Once a woman decides she doesn't like you "like that", she never will.

Author:  Krazy Ivan [ Thu Mar 12, 2009 3:30 pm ]
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The Original Kid Cairo wrote:
doug - evergreen park wrote:
if you haven't kissed by the end of "date" 3. you are in the friend zone forever.

And that's the unfortunate thing about the friend zone. Once a woman decides she doesn't like you "like that", she never will.


Not true, Kid. I was shot down by a chick (not the wife) back in the day, only to get some play a few years later.

And I believe I kissed my wife on the fourth date. Could be wrong...

Author:  The Original Kid Cairo [ Thu Mar 12, 2009 3:34 pm ]
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You think you're better than me Ivan? You think you're better than me? Huh?! Look at me when I talk to you, damn it! You ain't better than me, you got that?! You're thisclose Ivan...thisclose!



:roll:

Author:  Krazy Ivan [ Thu Mar 12, 2009 3:38 pm ]
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Well according to the tournament results, you are better than me... :(

Author:  Ryno's Wife [ Thu Mar 12, 2009 3:39 pm ]
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doug - evergreen park wrote:
if you haven't kissed by the end of "date" 1. you are in the friend zone forever.


Fixed.

Seriously...if he doesn't want to kiss me at some point during date 1, I'm assuming he's not interested.

Author:  doug - evergreen park [ Thu Mar 12, 2009 4:02 pm ]
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most guys want to kiss you at the end of date 1 if we are into you and it is clear that you are into us....but, by date 3 if we haven't then "what the hell is going on here?"

one night stands are great and all, but...meh. "anyone can play guitar"

i prefer to have to "wait" a bit. b/c by then i can tell if she's an airhead, too lawyer-e, whatever..
the chase, the kill, the feast...

Author:  Regular Reader [ Thu Mar 12, 2009 4:12 pm ]
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doug - evergreen park wrote:
i prefer to have to "wait" a bit. b/c by then i can tell if she's an airhead, too lawyer-e, whatever..
the chase, the kill, the feast...


You really thought like this in your late teens - early 20's? Admirable.


:wink:

Author:  Frank Coztansa [ Fri Mar 13, 2009 9:02 am ]
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Ryno's Wife wrote:
doug - evergreen park wrote:
if you haven't kissed by the end of "date" 1. you are in the friend zone forever.


Fixed.

Seriously...if he doesn't want to kiss me at some point during date 1, I'm assuming he's not interested.

Strongly disagree. Not always on date 1, but most certainly by date 2.

Last night confirmed this for me.

Author:  The Original Kid Cairo [ Fri Mar 13, 2009 9:04 am ]
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Perfect setup for a one-liner. Any takers?

Author:  Frank Coztansa [ Fri Mar 13, 2009 9:11 am ]
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Go ahead, see if I care.

She's no 90 pounder with skull underwear, but I still probably outkicked my coverage

Author:  rogers park bryan [ Fri Mar 13, 2009 9:18 am ]
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Frank Coztansa wrote:
Go ahead, see if I care.

She's no 90 pounder with skull underwear, but I still probably outkicked my coverage

date 1- no kiss
date 2- kiss
date 3 - stop short??? dry finger???

Author:  Frank Coztansa [ Fri Mar 13, 2009 9:20 am ]
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rogers park bryan wrote:
[date 3 - stop short???

:lol:
I did that with Estelle 40 years ago!

Author:  Chus [ Fri Mar 13, 2009 9:46 am ]
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Frank Coztansa wrote:
rogers park bryan wrote:
[date 3 - stop short???

:lol:
I did that with Estelle 40 years ago!


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lxGRE2wpjsY

Author:  Ryno's Wife [ Fri Mar 13, 2009 10:49 am ]
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Frank Coztansa wrote:
Ryno's Wife wrote:
doug - evergreen park wrote:
if you haven't kissed by the end of "date" 1. you are in the friend zone forever.


Fixed.

Seriously...if he doesn't want to kiss me at some point during date 1, I'm assuming he's not interested.

Strongly disagree. Not always on date 1, but most certainly by date 2.

Last night confirmed this for me.


Seriously? You'd hold off on the kiss until date 2? What the fuck, are you people still in junior high?

Author:  doug - evergreen park [ Fri Mar 13, 2009 10:59 am ]
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it depends RW.
some girls i've known like to play coy and then rip your clothes off as soon as you kiss on date 2/3 etc....

sometimes, dinner/beers are a formality on date 1
"let's just get to fuckin already..."

my experience has been straight to bed or wait a couple of weeks, a month, two months.

RR: i did not have sex for 3 years between ages 18-21. cancer and recovery, etc...then i met my ex-wife and was with her for 9 years...
so, i've been "catching up" on lost time since 2006.

Author:  Frank Coztansa [ Fri Mar 13, 2009 11:04 am ]
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Ryno's Wife wrote:
Seriously? You'd hold off on the kiss until date 2? What the fuck, are you people still in junior high?

That is not a requirement, but it all depends on the situation. If all goes well, kiss on the first date. With this current girl, it was best that I held off until date #2.

Author:  The Original Kid Cairo [ Fri Mar 13, 2009 11:27 am ]
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I think you're right Frank. I'm all about reading the signs and letting the moment dictate. If indicators are clear on the first date, then you go for it. If not (because some women are more reserved), you wait until the next time to see if the chemistry is really there. By then, you will have talked enough times to know whether you have "it" or not.

It's always better to wait for the moment than to jump the gun - cause that can be an irreparable dealbreaker. In my experiences, when it was time for the first kiss, we both just kinda knew it and went with it.

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