or a game of "big bank/little bank"

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The difference between a Friday and Saturday for our venue is $6,000 and $8,000 minimum (before tax and tip) for the venue, food, liquor, etc...
So, basically the difference is 20-25 guests between the two days (60 vs 85).

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@audioidkid

We didn't explore the Friday or Sunday option, but with my entire family coming from out of town, Saturday worked best for us.

That said, if we had opted for Labor Day weekend (already booked when we looked at it), we may have jumped on the Sunday date so people could enjoy the lake and stuff in Michigan.

Sunday weddings on a non-holiday weekend suck...even worse if they pull it during football season (my cousin).

I see nothing wrong with a Friday night wedding...still get the weekend to recover.

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Absolutely.

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I honestly would have thought that by this thread that Panther could provide more than a three day vacation for his family.

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3 day vacations are the Sunday weddings of vacations.

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You do not talk to me like that! I work too hard to deal with this stuff! I work too hard! I'm an important member of the CSFMB! I drive a Dodge Stratus!

Makes sense. 5 days of school after 2+ months of no school really puts you in the burnt out stage. Damn those evil newlyweds for not understanding the importance of a vacation one week into school!

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You do not talk to me like that! I work too hard to deal with this stuff! I work too hard! I'm an important member of the CSFMB! I drive a Dodge Stratus!

I cannot support Panther in this line of thought.

It would be insane for a father of modest means to break the bank paying for something as ultimately trivial as a wedding ceremony. I think there are a lot of cool ways to have a ceremony inexpensively. The key word is inexpensive...not cheap.

I always thought NYE would be a great wedding day (although obviously expensive). It saves guests from some bullshit NYE party. You have the hall until midnight and then tell everyone to scram or follow to the after hours. Drink up for free covers the cost of having to cab it stay at a hotel. Sadly, no one seems to agree with me on this. Who cares if grandma Mabel breaks her hip falling on the ice.

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O judgment! Thou art fled to brutish beasts,
And men have lost their reason.

Could say this in reply 98% of the time with him and be correct.

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Fuck that. Went to a NYE wedding a couple years ago and it SUCKED. All my friends were out doing something and I had to be at this damn wedding. Maybe if it was a close friend or something but it wasn't.
I think it takes huge balls to have your wedding on NYE. The worst Jerry. The worst.

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"Play until it hurts, then play until it hurts to not play."
http://soundcloud.com/darkside124 HOF 2013, MM Champion 2014

Frank! Take that burning bag off of your head! You're gonna mess up my wedding pictures!

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Most weddings are interchangable memories to the guests unless they are close family. Hire the best photographer you can, not a friend of a friend, and make an effort to look good in your pictures. Have decent food and ridiculously good desserts. Nobody cares what the wine on the table is. insist on top shelf for at least 2 vodkas, 2 whiskeys, and a gin, call is fine for everything else. Dance with your mom and your mother-in-law.

Mostly the pictures and the Mom stuff. Nobody really cares about the rest of it.

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I don't remember half the time if I'm hiding or I'm lost

That's just bad form. You would be right to castigate them publicly for bringing shame upon your house. Anyway, you, me, JORR, and bigfan can go over all the finer points of this stuff with Frank at the fitting.

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I don't remember half the time if I'm hiding or I'm lost

I offered a toupee if his hair burned.

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I've been alright with Panther for awhile. I don't think he's too bad. I think he said some fucked up things in this thread but it's clear Frank doesn't give a shit so whatever. Three songs is a pretty damn long slide show.

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Fare you well, fare you well
I love you more than words can tell
Listen to the river sing sweet songs
To rock my soul

We're going to have 8-12 draft beers at our wedding...and probably call liquor and whatever wine.

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@audioidkid

Douchebag's wedding sounded cool. IIRC they sorta planned it with the guests in mind.



Again, for the record, Im AGAINST this slideshow Frank. This is going to be a disaster!

Yeah. I really don't care what anybody thinks about the slideshow. Its our wedding, we want it, so we're doing it. Thats pretty much all that needs to be said. Couldn't care less about anybody else's opinion on such matters. Its our wedding so if we want things done a certain way, or on a certain day, or to a certain song, that is the way its going to be done and to hell with what anybody else thinks.

For those that have replied/PM'd with serious responses, thank you very much.

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I want to let the record show that I don't agree with anything Panther has said in this thread.

Some of it hits home. The "loser parent-having" comment bothered me quite a bit. Her parents and mine work their asses off. There are a lot of hard-working people out there who aren't wealthy. I don't like the tone of some of what I read here.

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Kid Cairo: 2013 March Madness Tournament Winner!

"Cowabunga? Cowa fucking piece of dog shit! This game is diarrhea coming out of my dick!"

single misanthropes should probably stay away from a groom a few days before the wedding

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O judgment! Thou art fled to brutish beasts,
And men have lost their reason.

...Furthermore, this is what you open yourself up to when you talk in detail about your life on this board. I learned that lesson a few years ago.

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Kid Cairo: 2013 March Madness Tournament Winner!

"Cowabunga? Cowa fucking piece of dog shit! This game is diarrhea coming out of my dick!"

People are idiots when it comes to judging others on the wedding. I wouldn't worry about it. There are people that would complain that the ice was too cold if everything else was perfect. Create the wedding that you've dreamed of since you were a little boy and hopefully people like Panther either don't go or accept that they don't matter on that day.

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You do not talk to me like that! I work too hard to deal with this stuff! I work too hard! I'm an important member of the CSFMB! I drive a Dodge Stratus!

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Anybody here seen my old friend Bobby?
Can you tell me where he's gone?
I thought I saw him walkin' up to The Hill
With Elon, Kash, and Don

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Kid Cairo's Boers & Bernstein YouTube Channel

Kid Cairo: 2013 March Madness Tournament Winner!

"Cowabunga? Cowa fucking piece of dog shit! This game is diarrhea coming out of my dick!"

The slideshow thing is common these days.

We are doing one that will just be playing in the background through dinner...

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I'm not going to apologize for showing sympathy to Panther and his family because he was financially unable to provide them with a proper vacation,

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How many PM's have you received yet?

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If I get married, my parents will be a cost, not a fund.

Ask for the parents W-2's before proposing.

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You do not talk to me like that! I work too hard to deal with this stuff! I work too hard! I'm an important member of the CSFMB! I drive a Dodge Stratus!