Yes. It didn’t go on very long (less than 1 year) before I filed for divorce. It started basically after I knew divorce was when, not if. Doesn’t make it right nor is it an excuse….just how it went down. It’s an awful thing to do to someone and I hated myself for a long time. My ex had her faults and she is an equal contributor to the failure of the marriage, but in the end I cheated and I honestly feel I went out like a bitch for doing that.