formerlyknownas wrote:
leashyourkids wrote:
formerlyknownas wrote:
leashyourkids wrote:
formerlyknownas wrote:
I had a Muslim student once tell me that in 20 years, my daughter would be wearing a hijab. "It's coming," he promised. I wanted to say !^%#&%!, but instead just nodded and muttered "Ok" and moved on.
Why? Why the fuck would you allow that to go unchallenged? You sound like a beta male.
1) He made a sufficient ass of himself in front of his classmates. They seemed to get the message my "Ok" sent.
2) You can get in trouble for doing that. I have not gotten in trouble for that specific issue, but I have seen it happen at both the high school and college levels to colleagues.
3) I have an anger management problem. A serious problem. Had I started in on the kid, it would have been hard to stop.
Okay. I'm not trying to portray myself as a hardass. I'm not sure what I'd do when stunned with such a statement. But man... given time to think, I'd have a hard time not putting that kid in his place. Again, your reasons are legit. I'm just thinking out loud.
I hear ya, Leash. I had an incident with a Jehovah's Witness and his crazed mother before this and got in trouble for it, so I was suppressing a bunch of stuff.
ETA: Sorry, we are trying to have a raccoon removed from the crib, so my replies have been clipped.
But I do challenge students all the time. I can't stand those teachers who think, "Well, if the student says it, it's valid."
One problem is that when it comes to certain populations (and those populations differ depending on the school, but at the school I was at, a local university, that included Muslims), administrators don't stand behind you--especially when you lose your temper a little and drop a "hell" or "shit." Once they hear that, they bite down on it like a pit bull and refuse to let go, even when the student vaguely threatens you. They might also put you through a Kafkaesque trial meant to dehumanize you before firing you or not renewing your contract.
So with the fundamentalists where I teach now, when unexpected shit like that happens, I sometimes let it go. I speak much more professionally now to protect myself, but it's those vague threats ("It's coming") that can have me reacting before I'm even conscious of it.
Anyway--just wanted people to know that many teachers are not pushovers, and sorry for writing such clipped responses.
TL;DR: I hear ya.
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rogers park bryan wrote:
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