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PostPosted: Tue Feb 12, 2013 10:40 am 
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Is there any other situation where you would teach someone a lesson by violence?
Military, boxing/MMA training, football, possibly police training.
Agreed. I think that proves my point.

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My father used to beat the absolute shit out of me all the time. I remember one time while I was in high school, I apparently pulled out of the driveway too fast on a snowy day so he got in his car and chased me up to the school(like 2 blocks away) waited for me to get out of the car and proceeded to punch me in the face as hard as he could and than take my keys away from me. Does that count for this thread?

So no I won't be hitting my son or future children.

Ladies and gentleman.....Joliet.



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You people are what is wrong with America. Back when I was a child, getting your ass kicked taught you about respect, discipline and accountability. Nowadays, your kids grow up and do not know anything about respect, discipline or accountability. They have be taught by you people to believe the world owes them everything and they are never wrong. Getting your britches pulled down and your ass paddled is a sign of love. #Truth.

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 Post subject: Re: Hitting your kids
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Boilermaker Rick wrote:
Is there any other situation where you would teach someone a lesson by violence? .


I can think of one right now

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just hit your wife instead


It's against the law to hit your wife.



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 Post subject: Re: Hitting your kids
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Boilermaker Rick wrote:
Would you hit an employee or co-worker? Do you care about your kids more than your employee or co-worker?

Is there any other situation where you would teach someone a lesson by violence? If so, do you put your children in the same level as the person who is getting taught that lesson?

The option to hit kids is just a relic of a more uneducated time.

Agreed on hitting.

Spanking a toddler though is a little different than punching or slapping a child


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 Post subject: Re: Hitting your kids
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I have spanked all of my daughters at times in their lives, mainly when they were under about 8 years of age. As they got older I have found that taking away privileges is more effective way of disciplining them.

However you go about it, kids need to have a fear of negative consequences for their actions. In doing a lot of work recently at our local school that is the biggest issue I see that exists in so many today.

Not too long ago I was around an 8th grade girl who was being suspended out of school for 10 days. She was waiting for her parents to come pick her up. She was laughing and goofing off talking about how she was going to sleep in for the next 2 weeks and have a vacation. I thought back to when I was that age and if I was waiting for my parents to pick me up for a suspension that would have been the worst time of my life. There would have been no sleeping in and no vacation at all. I would have worked my ass off and had any privileges I had at that age taken away for a long time. That seems to be really lacking today in our world.

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Bagels wrote:
just hit your wife instead


There was a time in this country, when threatening your wife with physical abuse was funny.

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 Post subject: Re: Hitting your kids
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Yes, taking things away works well for me.

But some have said, "sometimes a kid needs a good ass kicking"

Im not gonna kick my daughter's ass. And I wouldnt if I had a son.


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I have spanked all of my daughters at times in their lives, mainly when they were under about 8 years of age. As they got older I have found that taking away privileges is more effective way of disciplining them.

However you go about it, kids need to have a fear of negative consequences for their actions. In doing a lot of work recently at our local school that is the biggest issue I see that exists in so many today.

Not too long ago I was around an 8th grade girl who was being suspended out of school for 10 days. She was waiting for her parents to come pick her up. She was laughing and goofing off talking about how she was going to sleep in for the next 2 weeks and have a vacation. I thought back to when I was that age and if I was waiting for my parents to pick me up for a suspension that would have been the worst time of my life. There would have been no sleeping in and no vacation at all. I would have worked my ass off and had any privileges I had at that age taken away for a long time. That seems to be really lacking today in our world.


I could not agree with you more. Thanks Obummer! #Truth

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We use a 'marble' system, each child has an ice cube tray and every time they do something good that they were not told to do they get a marble. When their tray is full...


So you use Parcheesi as a form of discipline?


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We use a 'marble' system, each child has an ice cube tray and every time they do something good that they were not told to do they get a marble. When their tray is full...


So you use Parcheesi as a form of discipline?


Chinese Checkers works much better.

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 Post subject: Re: Hitting your kids
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rogers park bryan wrote:
Yes, taking things away works well for me.

But some have said, "sometimes a kid needs a good ass kicking"
A one time spanking across the ass or on the arm, to me, is nowhere near a "good ass kicking"

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 Post subject: Re: Hitting your kids
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Frank Coztansa wrote:
rogers park bryan wrote:
Yes, taking things away works well for me.

But some have said, "sometimes a kid needs a good ass kicking"
A one time spanking across the ass or on the arm, to me, is nowhere near a "good ass kicking"

Yes, I pointed that out in my last post.

I think you can get thru without spanking too though.


Unless you got a real asshole kid on your hands.


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Props to RPB for two solid threads. I'm not touching either subject, but just wanted to point out how good they are...

...gets the people goin'...

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Props to RPB for two solid threads. I'm not touching either subject, but just wanted to point out how good they are...

...gets the people goin'...


You people never have anything to add. #Truth

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Krazy Ivan wrote:
Props to RPB for two solid threads. I'm not touching either subject, but just wanted to point out how good they are...

...gets the people goin'...

You should have seen the thread titles that I deemed too incendiary


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RFDC wrote:
I have spanked all of my daughters at times in their lives, mainly when they were under about 8 years of age. As they got older I have found that taking away privileges is more effective way of disciplining them.

However you go about it, kids need to have a fear of negative consequences for their actions. In doing a lot of work recently at our local school that is the biggest issue I see that exists in so many today.

Not too long ago I was around an 8th grade girl who was being suspended out of school for 10 days. She was waiting for her parents to come pick her up. She was laughing and goofing off talking about how she was going to sleep in for the next 2 weeks and have a vacation. I thought back to when I was that age and if I was waiting for my parents to pick me up for a suspension that would have been the worst time of my life. There would have been no sleeping in and no vacation at all. I would have worked my ass off and had any privileges I had at that age taken away for a long time. That seems to be really lacking today in our world.


I agree 100%. I spent a few years as a teacher and I saw the same exact thing. Parents didn't want to parent and teachers would either let things go or the deans would let things go, or the parents would always come to the student was in trouble or the teachers would try to discipline or write the student up but would see little support from "The Deans!" and would quickly learn to not do anything and just make it through the day.


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 Post subject: Re: Hitting your kids
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RFDC wrote:
I have spanked all of my daughters at times in their lives, mainly when they were under about 8 years of age. As they got older I have found that taking away privileges is more effective way of disciplining them.

However you go about it, kids need to have a fear of negative consequences for their actions. In doing a lot of work recently at our local school that is the biggest issue I see that exists in so many today.

Not too long ago I was around an 8th grade girl who was being suspended out of school for 10 days. She was waiting for her parents to come pick her up. She was laughing and goofing off talking about how she was going to sleep in for the next 2 weeks and have a vacation. I thought back to when I was that age and if I was waiting for my parents to pick me up for a suspension that would have been the worst time of my life. There would have been no sleeping in and no vacation at all. I would have worked my ass off and had any privileges I had at that age taken away for a long time. That seems to be really lacking today in our world.


Sounds like she will be a pleasant student in high school.

Out of school suspension is useless for the kid if parents will not enforce consequences. It used ot be if you were suspended from school you could not make the work up. That has been changed in most places. So basically it is like a vacation for kids whose parents don't give a shit.

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In school suspension seems much more effective


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Im not gonna kick my daughter's ass. And I couldnt if I had a son.

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rogers park bryan wrote:
In school suspension seems much more effective


Supervising that was part of my job description as well.

Fun times.


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instead of hitting them, i bet if you pointed a loaded gun at them it would get the point across


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Hell, I still get spanked.


Daddy's little girl has been a bad girl

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Im not gonna kick my daughter's ass. And I couldnt if I had a son.

You're right because

A) im a lover, not a fighter
B) If I had a son, he would be King of Kings


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Props to RPB for two solid threads. I'm not touching either subject, but just wanted to point out how good they are...

...gets the people goin'...

You should have seen the thread titles that I deemed too incendiary


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instead of hitting them, i bet if you pointed a loaded gun at them it would get the point across

I pointed a shotgun at my dad when i was like 8.

It was in the basement, my grandpa brought it back from WW2

I think if my dad was ever gonna hit me it would have been then


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rogers park bryan wrote:
Krazy Ivan wrote:
Props to RPB for two solid threads. I'm not touching either subject, but just wanted to point out how good they are...

...gets the people goin'...

You should have seen the thread titles that I deemed too incendiary


Buddhism with 312 Player and Walt William's Neck.

:lol:

Actually thats a THIRD thread thats poppin, but point taken


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