The details differ, but the story is the same.

For me, it was an attempt to kiss me during a job interview. Inappropriate questions about my personal grooming and spoken-aloud fantasies about how great the sex we'd have together would be. A comment to a colleague: "If you're not going to try to f*** her, I am." A comment to a prospective boss during a job interview: "I've got an idea for a show. It's a half-hour of Sarah sitting in a chair, me standing over her shoulder staring down at her tits."

A reporter at another outlet complained to a team's PR staff that I must be sleeping with players because they were "giving me better answers." A team PR staffer telling a room full of employees I was a problem because my "boobs are distracting."

I used to say that things seemed to be getting better, but now I know they're only getting better for me. The power and agency I've acquired in the industry over the last decade-plus have made me a pretty dangerous target. But the women just starting out, the ones without a voice, they know the truth. They're going through it, just like I went through it, and the women before me, and the women before them.

I would jack off.

Not only will she not discuss that part of her past, she gets real indignant when it’s brought up.

http://sarahspain.com/im-mad-as-hell-im-not-going-to-take-this-anymore/

This is what a petulant hypocrite looks like.

You are damned if you do and damned if you don't. Best you can do is set a boundary and stick to it. She'd be better off if she didn't get indignant about it and said I did what I had to at the time to get me where I am. I didn't like it but it helped in getting the results I wanted. I wish things weren't this way and I'd like to use my position to change things now and for the future. It's a really difficult thing to go thru. I made the best decisions I could at the time, there was no right or clear path to follow. It's very hard to navigate and right or wrong I stand behind my decisions.

It's a lot harder than you think making the decision to do things or not do things and then accepting the consequences of that decision. When you go the way of not doing things it's even harder to keep going while keeping things amicable or advancing.

Thing is you know what you are doing is wrong. It's a horrible feeling. It's not something you keep wanting brought up, needs to be buried.

You are damned if you do and damned if you don't. Best you can do is set a boundary and stick to it. She'd be better off if she didn't get indignant about it and said I did what I had to at the time to get me where I am. I didn't like it but it helped in getting the results I wanted. I wish things weren't this way and I'd like to use my position to change things now and for the future. It's a really difficult thing to go thru. I made the best decisions I could at the time, there was no right or clear path to follow. It's very hard to navigate and right or wrong I stand behind my decisions.

It's a lot harder than you think making the decision to do things or not do things and then accepting the consequences of that decision. When you go the way of not doing things it's even harder to keep going while keeping things amicable or advancing.

Then youd think she'd be more forgiving of others old social media posts instead of jumping down their throats about them and demanding accountability.

Nobody is saying that Spain got to the top only because she pulled these stunts, and certainly she wouldn't still be around if she wasn't working hard and all of that.

Last Sunday morning I was hoping that Dari and Mel were going to be on again instead of Will & Kate, but neither show was on and The Trifecta was on instead. Have the ratings been so bad that it's already being shuffled around to different time slots?

Anyway, Sarah Spain seems to be the driver of the show and she was talking about one of her pet peeves, which is people lying. Then she tells a story about how she and a female friend of hers were at the beach and she told a guy they met that she and her female friend met while they were doing porn. The guy turned out to be a producer in porn...for real. Sarah thought this was so funny but her two co-hosts didn't say much of anything until one of them said "For someone who says she hates lying you sure seem to lie a lot yourself."

The co-host's tone sounded like she was kind of kidding but was mostly serious as if Sarah had been irritating her. Sarah laughed it off by saying that when she lies it's just for fun and not done maliciously, and those are the lies that bother her.

I'm guessing the "We're in porn, tee-hee!" bit was probably done around the time she thought it would be awesome to sell herself for Super Bowl tickets and before she became a "feminist"/SJW.

You are damned if you do and damned if you don't. Best you can do is set a boundary and stick to it. She'd be better off if she didn't get indignant about it and said I did what I had to at the time to get me where I am. I didn't like it but it helped in getting the results I wanted. I wish things weren't this way and I'd like to use my position to change things now and for the future. It's a really difficult thing to go thru. I made the best decisions I could at the time, there was no right or clear path to follow. It's very hard to navigate and right or wrong I stand behind my decisions.

It's a lot harder than you think making the decision to do things or not do things and then accepting the consequences of that decision. When you go the way of not doing things it's even harder to keep going while keeping things amicable or advancing.

It very well may have been a situation where you are damned if you do and you're a never was if you don't. And the points she is trying to make are valid (at least the ones I have read seem to be.) She also seems to believe people possess only a monochromatic thought process that you either (A) work hard to get jobs or (B) use your female sex appeal to get jobs. Nobody is saying that Spain got to the top only because she pulled these stunts, and certainly she wouldn't still be around if she wasn't working hard and all of that. Seems like a situation where she may not have resolved it internally because as you say later, she may have been feeling awful doing it and understanding she was going against her beliefs in order to get her foot in the door, but now fifteen years later, it is painful for her to acknowledge that is the path she chose and she'd rather have people focusing on her last ten years of work... the other option may well have been she never gets a break and ends up working as an administrative assistant while keeping a sports blog on the side. If she would approach it from this vulnerable decision that was made years ago where neither side looked great, it would be more consistent with what she is currently trying to say rather than focusing on convincing us that sex appeal and hard work can both be done at the same time (most of us know this -- at least I hope we do!)

absolutely, "well yeah i was young and stupid. i'm older and hopefully wiser now. I, at one point, thought She-ra was important, intelligent television. I no longer think that.

I'd do soo much motorboating there...



Sorta reminds me of a story, back in the days, grinding it with some top heavy chick at Polyester's on the dance floor and she got tired of me staring at her tits which were pretty much falling out of her tiny top, and told me "I have eyes you know!''

My response was "Really!?"