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How do you show your wife you love her?
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Author:  Hatchetman [ Mon Jul 23, 2012 11:24 am ]
Post subject:  How do you show your wife you love her?
Not by giving her the bone. I know how to do that. :lol:

Need some more tips so she'd want the bone more often.
Author:  spanky [ Mon Jul 23, 2012 11:26 am ]
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Potential thread of the day.
Author:  Hank Scorpio [ Mon Jul 23, 2012 11:28 am ]
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I am eagerly awaiting all the advice from the many studs on this board.
Author:  Hatchetman [ Mon Jul 23, 2012 11:29 am ]
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spanky wrote:
Potential thread of the day.



I fear most men are as flummoxed as I am. And no that is not a BDSM maneuver.
Author:  Krazy Ivan [ Mon Jul 23, 2012 11:29 am ]
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NSFW, KS...
Author:  rogers park bryan [ Mon Jul 23, 2012 11:29 am ]
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Just get her an inexpensive gift of something she once mentioned in passing. They love when they think you listen to them.
Author:  good dolphin [ Mon Jul 23, 2012 11:30 am ]
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bring another dude into the bedroom
Author:  Ugueth Will Shiv You [ Mon Jul 23, 2012 11:30 am ]
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By "doing the laundry".
Author:  crosscheck [ Mon Jul 23, 2012 11:31 am ]
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You first have to learn how to love yourself.
Author:  Krazy Ivan [ Mon Jul 23, 2012 11:32 am ]
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rogers park bryan wrote:
They love when they think you listen to them.


That's it. They are unique...and crazy....but unique. The things you do all depend on what she digs. Just listen...
Author:  Hank Scorpio [ Mon Jul 23, 2012 11:32 am ]
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crosscheck wrote:
You first have to learn how to love yourself.


Done. Next step please.
Author:  rogers park bryan [ Mon Jul 23, 2012 11:33 am ]
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Krazy Ivan wrote:
rogers park bryan wrote:
They love when they think you listen to them.


That's it. They are unique...and crazy....but unique. The things you do all depend on what she digs. Just listen...

Right. Listen for 5 seconds, buy that thing and turn it back on mute.
Author:  spmack [ Mon Jul 23, 2012 11:33 am ]
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edited: Keeping Score, how did you get that picture of me?
Author:  rogers park bryan [ Mon Jul 23, 2012 11:33 am ]
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Hank Scorpio wrote:
crosscheck wrote:
You first have to learn how to love yourself.


Done. Next step please.

Clean yourself up, get up from your desk and make sure no one saw you....
Author:  Krazy Ivan [ Mon Jul 23, 2012 11:34 am ]
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crosscheck wrote:
You first have to learn how to love yourself.


Image
Author:  The Original Kid Cairo [ Mon Jul 23, 2012 11:35 am ]
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I can't believe Hatchet started this thread. Grown assed man shouldn't need advice on this, but I'll try to answer honestly.

1. Really listen to her (instead of pretending). Let her vent to you, and offer her feedback. Take a genuine interest in how she feels about stuff.

2. Tell her how you feel about her. Women don't like to wonder or guess what's on your mind.

3. Go out on more dates. Things can get repetitive if you just routinely sit on the couch and watch TV and stuff like that. Take her out and do fun stuff so she doesn't feel like you take her for granted.
Author:  good dolphin [ Mon Jul 23, 2012 11:35 am ]
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I hear they love all those porn type moves in the bedroom. Try some jackhammer anal topped off with a load on the face. You could also try a box of Fannie Mae mint chocolates
Author:  donspiracy [ Mon Jul 23, 2012 11:36 am ]
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Buy her a vacuum.
Author:  The Original Kid Cairo [ Mon Jul 23, 2012 11:37 am ]
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I'd rather be pussy-whipped than to have to whip myself bruh.
Author:  rogers park bryan [ Mon Jul 23, 2012 11:38 am ]
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The Original Kid Cairo wrote:
I can't believe Hatchet started this thread. Grown assed man shouldn't need advice on this, but I'll try to answer honestly.

1. Really listen to her (instead of pretending).

Hey man, you have your style, I have mine.

I cant listen ALL the time
Author:  Hank Scorpio [ Mon Jul 23, 2012 11:38 am ]
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The Original Kid Cairo wrote:

1. Let her vent to you, and offer her feedback.

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I disagree with the bolded part. I dont know how many times this happens and I give feedback and solutions instead of just listening to the whining and she says that she doesnt want that. She just wants me to listen to her bitch about things and nod my head and sympathize. Go bitch and moan to a brick wall then, I fix problems.
Author:  The Original Kid Cairo [ Mon Jul 23, 2012 11:40 am ]
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Hank Scorpio wrote:
The Original Kid Cairo wrote:

1. Let her vent to you, and offer her feedback.

.


I disagree with the bolded part. I dont know how many times this happens and I give feedback and solutions instead of just listening to the whining and she says that she doesnt want that. She just wants me to listen to her bitch about things and nod my head and sympathize. Go bitch and moan to a brick wall then, I fix problems.

I can understand that. Not all women are the same. Some can take feedback and others, you can't really tell them anything. You have to really know her in order to know what approach to take.
Author:  Hatchetman [ Mon Jul 23, 2012 11:40 am ]
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The Original Kid Cairo wrote:
I can't believe Hatchet started this thread. Grown assed man shouldn't need advice on this, but I'll try to answer honestly.


Always looking to improve. That's why I'm a real pro. Married 18 years. Your advice about listening is a good reminder. I should probably set the laptop down more often and pretend I care what she's talking about.
Author:  rogers park bryan [ Mon Jul 23, 2012 11:44 am ]
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No woman ever truly wants feedback.

They want you to agree with them that the situation is fucked


Rosie Perez and Woody Harrellson had a scene in Caucasians got no hops that pretty much sums it up


Dont get her water when she's thirsty. Tell her you feel her pain and you to have been dry mouthed and you want to suffer with her.


If you offer a solution, it pisses them off that they didnt think of it
Author:  The Original Kid Cairo [ Mon Jul 23, 2012 11:46 am ]
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I get that, but again not all women are the same.

My lady does have her moments when she wants to vent, and I let her. But often times, she asks for my honest feedback and I give it to her. I always tell her that she may not necessarily agree, but if she asks me what I think, I'm going to tell her. She respects that, which is why she comes to me about stuff.

But the Rosie/Woody thing is correct in that empathy goes a long way. Just making her understand "Hey, I feel your pain" works wonders.
Author:  Hatchetman [ Mon Jul 23, 2012 11:49 am ]
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The Original Kid Cairo wrote:
My lady does have her moments when she wants to vent, and I let her. But often times, she asks for my honest feedback and I give it to her. I always tell her that she may not necessarily agree, but if she asks me what I think, I'm going to tell her. She respects that, which is why she comes to me about stuff.
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Are you sure you're not married to a dude? :lol:
Author:  Vincent Antonelli [ Mon Jul 23, 2012 11:49 am ]
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The Original Kid Cairo wrote:
I get that, but again not all women are the same.

My lady does have her moments when she wants to vent, and I let her. But often times, she asks for my honest feedback and I give it to her. I always tell her that she may not necessarily agree, but if she asks me what I think, I'm going to tell her. She respects that, which is why she comes to me about stuff.


It is not until after you are married that she will let you know she doesn't really give a fuck what you think unless you agree with her. Hatchet, take Good Dolphin's advice. A little surprise trip down the hershey highway when she is not expecting it is better than diamonds.
Author:  rogers park bryan [ Mon Jul 23, 2012 11:50 am ]
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I try to circumvent it by saying "If it were me, _____"
Author:  The Original Kid Cairo [ Mon Jul 23, 2012 11:50 am ]
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rogers park bryan wrote:
I try to circumvent it by saying "If it were me, _____"

Yeah, I do that a lot.
Author:  Hatchetman [ Mon Jul 23, 2012 11:52 am ]
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Vincent Antonelli wrote:
A little surprise trip down the hershey highway when she is not expecting it is better than diamonds.


You ever seen those pictures of "broken" penises? That's what I'd wind up if I went that road. A brick wall.
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