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| Author: | Nas [ Fri Apr 05, 2013 11:55 am ] |
| Post subject: | Wedding Invitation |
I have a cousin that I was really close to as a kid but haven't really seen that often or kept in touch with as an adult. Today I get a wedding invitation from him. The wedding is May 25th. I could be wrong but that really seems like short notice. On top of that the wedding is in Vancouver, WA. I'm really on the fence about going. Help me out. |
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| Author: | Darkside [ Fri Apr 05, 2013 11:56 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Wedding Invitation |
Say you're going and then change your mind at the last minute and send a juicer as a gift. |
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| Author: | Chus [ Fri Apr 05, 2013 11:58 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Wedding Invitation |
Just listen to your heart. That's what I do. |
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| Author: | rogers park bryan [ Fri Apr 05, 2013 11:59 am ] |
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Nas wrote: I have a cousin that I was really close to as a kid but haven't really seen that often or kept in touch with as an adult. Today I get a wedding invitation from him. The wedding is May 25th. I could be wrong but that really seems like short notice. On top of that the wedding is in Vancouver, WA. I'm really on the fence about going. Help me out. Forgive the Seinfeld reference but its apt here. That is a NONvitation, or an UNvite. You need way more notice than that for a travel wedding. Send a shitty gift. |
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| Author: | jimmypasta [ Fri Apr 05, 2013 11:59 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Wedding Invitation |
Your cousin doesn't want you to come,but is hoping for money in an envelope. It's an old ploy. Send him 20-40 bucks (whatever you think is right) and a card. |
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| Author: | jimmypasta [ Fri Apr 05, 2013 12:01 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Wedding Invitation |
Chus wrote: Just listen to your heart. That's what I do.
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| Author: | Big Chicagoan [ Fri Apr 05, 2013 12:03 pm ] |
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Tell him you are moving in with your girlfriend that day. |
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| Author: | Colonel Angus [ Fri Apr 05, 2013 12:04 pm ] |
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Nas wrote: I have a cousin that I was really close to as a kid but haven't really seen that often or kept in touch with as an adult. Today I get a wedding invitation from him. The wedding is May 25th. I could be wrong but that really seems like short notice. On top of that the wedding is in Vancouver, WA. I'm really on the fence about going. Help me out. Just tell them you can't get out of work on that short of a notice. |
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| Author: | Hank Scorpio [ Fri Apr 05, 2013 12:05 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Wedding Invitation |
Sounds like someone got a lot of 'Will Not Attend' replies and is frantically trying to fill out the hall they have already booked and paid for. 7 weeks isnt a lot of time to plan a trip like that... Especially since you have kids. |
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| Author: | doug - evergreen park [ Fri Apr 05, 2013 12:07 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Wedding Invitation |
Hank Scorpio wrote: Sounds like someone got a lot of 'Will Not Attend' replies and is frantically trying to fill out the hall they have already booked and paid for... Yep. |
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| Author: | Frank Coztansa [ Fri Apr 05, 2013 12:10 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Wedding Invitation |
On that short of notice, I would not go. I would also not send a very good gift. $50 would be plenty IMO. |
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| Author: | denisdman [ Fri Apr 05, 2013 12:14 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Wedding Invitation |
You never saw the invitation, damn postal workers. That'd be my story. |
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| Author: | Northside_Dan [ Fri Apr 05, 2013 12:17 pm ] |
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denisdman wrote: You never saw the invitation, damn postal workers. That'd be my story. With that short of notice for a destination wedding, I'd go with unable to get the time off of work/kinds out of school etc. Not even really a lie. |
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| Author: | Seacrest [ Fri Apr 05, 2013 12:17 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Wedding Invitation |
Q. When should we send out our wedding invitations? A. Traditionally, invitations go out six to eight weeks before the wedding -- that gives guests plenty of time to clear their schedules and make travel arrangements if they don't live in town. If it's a destination wedding, give guests more time and send them out three months ahead of time. Most couples also send out save-the-date cards. They go out at six to eight months. Read more: Top 10 Wedding Invitation Etiquette Q&As - Wedding Planning - Wedding Invitations + Stationery http://wedding.theknot.com/wedding-plan ... z2Pbu3bBzS |
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| Author: | NearWessSideHussra [ Fri Apr 05, 2013 12:17 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Wedding Invitation |
screw it, fly out solo on el cheapo airlines, bang the maid of honor and/or bride and/or mother-in-law and/or gramma-in-law and/or best man and/or groom--wait, no, you're related to the groom? that'd be beyond the limits of good taste. pick up a date for the wedding at a local watering hole, tell your date to rip it up at the open bar and do the same. you'll never have to deal with unwanted wedding invitations again. |
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| Author: | Frank Coztansa [ Fri Apr 05, 2013 12:19 pm ] |
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I don't really think 6 weeks is that much notice. |
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| Author: | Nas [ Fri Apr 05, 2013 12:20 pm ] |
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Seacrest wrote: Q. When should we send out our wedding invitations? A. Traditionally, invitations go out six to eight weeks before the wedding -- that gives guests plenty of time to clear their schedules and make travel arrangements if they don't live in town. If it's a destination wedding, give guests more time and send them out three months ahead of time. Most couples also send out save-the-date cards. They go out at six to eight months. Read more: Top 10 Wedding Invitation Etiquette Q&As - Wedding Planning - Wedding Invitations + Stationery http://wedding.theknot.com/wedding-plan ... z2Pbu3bBzS Thanks! |
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| Author: | Seacrest [ Fri Apr 05, 2013 12:22 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Wedding Invitation |
Frank Coztansa wrote: I don't really think 6 weeks is that much notice. Our daughter is getting married in June. She sent her invites out Tuesday this week. They did the save the date thing a year ago though. |
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| Author: | NearWessSideHussra [ Fri Apr 05, 2013 12:24 pm ] |
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Alternative, send him a reply via email that you can't make the wedding but that he should look you up once the divorce happens and you'll fly out and do the rounds at PDX's infamous strip-club scene with him. |
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| Author: | Frank Coztansa [ Fri Apr 05, 2013 12:26 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Wedding Invitation |
Our wedding is November 8th, and our save the dates went out late Feb/early March. But its also here so nobody has to travel more than about an hour by car. Nas, show up, with your lady and all your kids, and give him $20 in a card. |
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| Author: | Regular Reader [ Fri Apr 05, 2013 12:28 pm ] |
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That is short notice for a distant wedding. However, consider that as a guy, your cousin may not have been really engaged in the whole invitations thing & belatedly discovered his unfortunate omission. Alternatively, he obviously may just be trolling for gifts. Who knows. In any event send a nice gift, a warm letter(politely noting you can't attend) and take the high road. Life's too short. |
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| Author: | rogers park bryan [ Fri Apr 05, 2013 12:30 pm ] |
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Go to the wedding and beat the fuck out of him |
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| Author: | NearWessSideHussra [ Fri Apr 05, 2013 12:35 pm ] |
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Seacrest wrote: Frank Coztansa wrote: I don't really think 6 weeks is that much notice. Our daughter is getting married in June. She sent her invites out Tuesday this week. Short notice, you should just send a cheap gift and a card wishing her well. |
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| Author: | Bagels [ Fri Apr 05, 2013 12:36 pm ] |
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rogers park bryan wrote: Go to the wedding and beat the fuck out of him then sleep with her |
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| Author: | doug - evergreen park [ Fri Apr 05, 2013 12:40 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Wedding Invitation |
It's clearly a re/un/non-invite. Nobody sends out invitations 6-8 weeks before a wedding unless they've sent a save the date 6 months beforehand. |
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| Author: | Bagels [ Fri Apr 05, 2013 12:46 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Wedding Invitation |
i'm getting a banner ad for Arabic Wedding Invitations  wtf
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| Author: | NearWessSideHussra [ Fri Apr 05, 2013 12:48 pm ] |
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Bagels wrote: i'm getting a banner ad for Arabic Wedding Invitations wtfSounds like you don't have adblock and ghostery installed. 
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| Author: | Frank Coztansa [ Fri Apr 05, 2013 12:50 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Wedding Invitation |
Nas wrote: Oh boy. There's my cousin. He didn't want me at this wedding, but here I am with a bunch of my idiot friends!
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| Author: | bosco [ Fri Apr 05, 2013 12:53 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Wedding Invitation |
Why give a wedding gift simply because you were sent an invitation? If you're not going, you give no gift unless it's someone really close to you. When I got married, a couple people who were invited that didn't go sent us money and I felt weird about cashing the check. If it wasn't for my wife talking me into cashing them, I would not have. |
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| Author: | NearWessSideHussra [ Fri Apr 05, 2013 1:02 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Wedding Invitation |
bosco wrote: I felt weird about cashing the check. If it wasn't for my wife talking me into cashing them, I would not have. What do you mean your personal dignity and sense of propriety is worth more than $X00 in uncashed wedding gift checks? Imagine the shoes I could buy with that cash. \ 
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