I'm looking for bars that draw crowds for the other teams.

Whereabouts do you live?

Online dating isn't a bad option.
In terms of friends, I'm rather introverted/socially awkward so I can understand where you are coming from so here's an idea: go to a board outing. I went to one and everyone was pretty cool. If I was living in Chicago, I would go to more.

I meant Bulls, Hawks, Cubs, Sox

Online dating isn't a bad option.
In terms of friends, I'm rather introverted/socially awkward so I can understand where you are coming from so here's an idea: go to a board outing. I went to one and everyone was pretty cool. If I was living in Chicago, I would go to more.

where are the best places to starting dating again.

Southside near Midway

Babydoll Polka Club.

Bingo games,when you are grocery shopping look around talk to a few.
I was going to say get your ass to church

Bingo,church and the grocery store?? I must have missed where he said he was looking for a 70 year old blue hair.

I prefer my own company most of all


To me online dating = dating but easier

You could probably find some good Hawks bars but they will probably be full of crusty old guys. You're the same age as me so I would say if there are some good micro brew focused bars around you I would hit up those. They tend to get a diverse crowd and have more of a community feel to them. Since beer is the focus it is a built in icebreaker.

You like wrestling so go find the gym the R Pro girls workout at.

Sounds like stalking...I only do that for one girl

Mr. Drebin,

Start living your life the way you want to. Go see some concerts, get a regular social calendar. Make a friend with a bartender. Ask them when and where all the white women at?? And ladies of all backgrounds for that matter. Start doing stuff by yourself, then when you meet or develop a dialogue with the chicks out there do the following. Say to potential date, "I'm going to (fill in the blank), who you like to join me?" The thought process here is guys will only go if a girl joins them. Fuck that bullshit. You are going to where ever and inviting them to join you. Start buying two concert/game/event tickets if you can. That is key, you are doing stuff and asking them to come along. The "I'll only go if I have a date, and won't if I am riding solo", that is a losers mentality.

I've been divorced for about a month now and I'm starting to feel that emptiness that comes with not being in a relationship; after 5 years of working, school, and my wife, I have a big void in my life that I need to fill. I don't really have any friends; I have one but she's married and I see her maybe once a month. What I'm looking to do is to get out and make friends; I've been to a sports bar that's good for the Bears, but I'm looking for bars that draw crowds for the other teams. I'm also rusty at the dating game; I'm 34 so I think I've outgrown the clubs and I was wondering if anyone has any suggestions where the best places are to starting dating again.

oh my

She can get on her knees with her tongue out any time for me