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| Author: | reents [ Sat Mar 29, 2014 10:14 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Some sad news |
I know most people usually work with someone and then something bad happens to them like die suddenly, how do you deal with it. I was just checking on Facebook, and found out 2 of my co-workers died in a car accident tonight, I knew one more than the other, I do work tomorrow and that's when it could hit more, but now Im more in shock. Add to this, one was a senior in high school and the other was 21 and just made a department manager. |
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| Author: | lipidquadcab [ Sat Mar 29, 2014 10:15 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Some sad news |
Damn dude...that's horrible... |
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| Author: | pittmike [ Sat Mar 29, 2014 10:20 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Some sad news |
It is tough. I feel for you. Will definitely be something to deal with. Just really try to place where all the feelings belong. Had a similar situation about 23 years old. Guy offed himself. Obviously all sad but some that barely knew him transfer that stuff to them and get all bogged down. Show your respect, process your feelings and if close support other friends. Then keep driving forward dude. Its gonna be a long hard ride. |
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| Author: | Darkside [ Sat Mar 29, 2014 10:22 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Some sad news |
reents wrote: I know most people usually work with someone and then something bad happens to them like die suddenly, how do you deal with it. You deal with it how it feels right to deal with it. There's no wrong way or right way to deal with anything like this. And please accept my sympathies. |
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| Author: | Colonel Angus [ Sat Mar 29, 2014 10:25 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Some sad news |
One woman I worked w/ was murdered along w/ most of her family. Another died in her sleep. I just kept on doing what I do. It was hard not to think about it, but that's what worked best for me. It's okay to grieve. Hopefully your workplace will get someone to talk to you guys. |
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| Author: | reents [ Sat Mar 29, 2014 10:29 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Some sad news |
Thanks, I think it will hit more when get to work, but right it's just more shock than anything, u see the person everyday and now won't. |
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| Author: | pittmike [ Sat Mar 29, 2014 10:37 pm ] |
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That is it rents. If you were close feel how you like. If just the shock of people disappearing deal with it and move along. Sad but really we all have to learn how to do death. |
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| Author: | Peoria Matt [ Sat Mar 29, 2014 10:44 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Some sad news |
pittmike wrote: That is it rents. If you were close feel how you like. If just the shock of people disappearing deal with it and move along. Sad but really we all have to learn how to do death. Yep. Had one co-worker die from a stomach aneurysm and another kill himself after a battle with Heroin. Everyone deals with it in their own way. Hang in there, reents. |
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| Author: | Seacrest [ Sun Mar 30, 2014 12:29 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Some sad news |
reents wrote: Thanks, I think it will hit more when get to work, but right it's just more shock than anything, u see the person everyday and now won't. That's a real tough trauma to deal with. Pray, consider asking a professional how best to deal with the situation. You have the prayers and sympathy of our family. |
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| Author: | reents [ Sun Mar 30, 2014 7:39 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Some sad news |
Thank you, all the management came and talked to us, see how we were doing and they were here if we needed anything. I don't know if this is good or bad, probably bad with timing, but since she was a manager, some of her department would like me to get her job. Said I'd wait a couple of days before applying. |
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| Author: | Nas [ Sun Mar 30, 2014 8:09 pm ] |
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Good for you. |
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| Author: | IkeSouth [ Sun Mar 30, 2014 8:36 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Some sad news |
one of my best friends died in the hospital from complications she dealt with since birth. we were the same age, she was 27 when she died and we met each other at 17, so we were close. always told eachother we will still be friends when were old and gray. 5 years later and it hasnt got any better as far as when i think about her. some things are just bad and thats that. there is no getting over it you just learn to live with it. |
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| Author: | Darkside [ Sun Mar 30, 2014 8:47 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Some sad news |
Damn I'm sorry to hear that Ike. |
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| Author: | Colonel Angus [ Sun Mar 30, 2014 8:50 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Some sad news |
reents wrote: Thank you, all the management came and talked to us, see how we were doing and they were here if we needed anything. I don't know if this is good or bad, probably bad with timing, but since she was a manager, some of her department would like me to get her job. Said I'd wait a couple of days before applying. Do you work for a small company? I'm surprised they posted the job already. |
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| Author: | Nas [ Sun Mar 30, 2014 8:56 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Some sad news |
IkeSouth wrote: one of my best friends died in the hospital from complications she dealt with since birth. we were the same age, she was 27 when she died and we met each other at 17, so we were close. always told eachother we will still be friends when were old and gray. 5 years later and it hasnt got any better as far as when i think about her. some things are just bad and thats that. there is no getting over it you just learn to live with it. Friday made 5 years since a good friend of mine was murdered. Still seems like yesterday except my godchildren are big a hell. |
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| Author: | reents [ Sun Mar 30, 2014 10:04 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Some sad news |
Colonel Angus wrote: reents wrote: Thank you, all the management came and talked to us, see how we were doing and they were here if we needed anything. I don't know if this is good or bad, probably bad with timing, but since she was a manager, some of her department would like me to get her job. Said I'd wait a couple of days before applying. Do you work for a small company? I'm surprised they posted the job already. No it's not a small company, one of the big retailers, I just have to go to the computer and click that I'm interested, I just didn't want to do it as soon as I got there, so probably Thursday or Friday |
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| Author: | Nas [ Sun Mar 30, 2014 10:08 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Some sad news |
reents wrote: Colonel Angus wrote: reents wrote: Thank you, all the management came and talked to us, see how we were doing and they were here if we needed anything. I don't know if this is good or bad, probably bad with timing, but since she was a manager, some of her department would like me to get her job. Said I'd wait a couple of days before applying. Do you work for a small company? I'm surprised they posted the job already. No it's not a small company, one of the big retailers, I just have to go to the computer and click that I'm interested, I just didn't want to do it as soon as I got there, so probably Thursday or Friday That's the right thing to do. |
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| Author: | Seacrest [ Sun Mar 30, 2014 11:08 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Some sad news |
reents wrote: Thank you, all the management came and talked to us, see how we were doing and they were here if we needed anything. I don't know if this is good or bad, probably bad with timing, but since she was a manager, some of her department would like me to get her job. Said I'd wait a couple of days before applying. Good for you reents. |
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