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Author: | Hatchetman [ Fri May 22, 2015 9:22 am ] |
Post subject: | what age do you let your child change genders? |
There was a Chicago magazine article this month about kids at relatively young ages changing genders. At first this is done via hair cuts, wrappings, potatoes, etc. But at some point the hormone treatments start, breast/penis removals, etc. (Oddly enough a couple days ago the Trib reported the State House passed a Bill banning this I think). I was like YIKES, 14 years old and you're cuttin off your breasts? Is that a good idea? I think by 14 we all know our gender identity, so if you gotta be a man then, you probably are gonna do it when you're 25 anyway. So what's the problem? I dunno. As a fairly open minded Christian I can't seem to agree with this whole thing as being "OK." Whay you say? |
Author: | jimmypasta [ Fri May 22, 2015 9:24 am ] |
Post subject: | Re: what age do you let your child change genders? |
Jack is Jill....WHOA! ![]() |
Author: | Don Tiny [ Fri May 22, 2015 9:26 am ] |
Post subject: | Re: what age do you let your child change genders? |
Hatchetman wrote: There was a Chicago magazine article this month about kids at relatively young ages changing genders. At first this is done via hair cuts, wrappings, potatoes, etc. But at some point the hormone treatments start, breast/penis removals, etc. (Oddly enough a couple days ago the Trib reported the State House passed a Bill banning this I think). I was like YIKES, 14 years old and you're cuttin off your breasts? Is that a good idea? I think by 14 we all know our gender identity, so if you gotta be a man then, you probably are gonna do it when you're 25 anyway. So what's the problem? I dunno. As a fairly open minded Christian I can't seem to agree with this whole thing as being "OK." Whay you say? I'm trying to figure out what the connection is between being a looney toon and potatoes ... |
Author: | Hatchetman [ Fri May 22, 2015 9:30 am ] |
Post subject: | Re: what age do you let your child change genders? |
you know how Italians put potatoes in the front of their pants to make their junk look like more than it is. |
Author: | SomeGuy [ Fri May 22, 2015 9:31 am ] |
Post subject: | Re: what age do you let your child change genders? |
Hatchetman wrote: There was a Chicago magazine article this month about kids at relatively young ages changing genders. At first this is done via hair cuts, wrappings, potatoes, etc. But at some point the hormone treatments start, breast/penis removals, etc. (Oddly enough a couple days ago the Trib reported the State House passed a Bill banning this I think). I was like YIKES, 14 years old and you're cuttin off your breasts? Is that a good idea? I think by 14 we all know our gender identity, so if you gotta be a man then, you probably are gonna do it when you're 25 anyway. So what's the problem? I dunno. As a fairly open minded Christian I can't seem to agree with this whole thing as being "OK." Whay you say? Our society has gone completely insane. |
Author: | Don Tiny [ Fri May 22, 2015 9:35 am ] |
Post subject: | Re: what age do you let your child change genders? |
Hatchetman wrote: you know how Italians put potatoes in the front of their pants to make their junk look like more than it is. N .... no, I do not. SomeGuy wrote: Our society has gone completely insane. And on that, we agree unreservedly. |
Author: | JORR [ Fri May 22, 2015 9:44 am ] |
Post subject: | Re: what age do you let your child change genders? |
What do you think about the morality of a sex change from a medical perspective? If a person feels he would be more comfortable with no legs, would it be appropriate for a doctor to amputate them? |
Author: | SomeGuy [ Fri May 22, 2015 9:47 am ] |
Post subject: | Re: what age do you let your child change genders? |
Joe Orr Road Rod wrote: What do you think about the morality of a sex change from a medical perspective? If a person feels he would be more comfortable with no legs, would it be appropriate for a doctor to amputate them? We have people that drool over the thought of stacking babies 10 high so, at this point, who cares. |
Author: | Hatchetman [ Fri May 22, 2015 9:49 am ] |
Post subject: | Re: what age do you let your child change genders? |
the joke was that the Polish guy tried the potato trick and wasn't attracting any dudes over in Wrigleyville like he thought he would. turns out he put it in the BACK of his pants. anyhoo. back to the question at hand. the reason this inerests me more than your average bizarre topic is that we actually know a family like this. normal, conservativish catholic family. from about 2nd or 3rd grade, the girl was different. she dressed like a guy, cut her hair short, etc. if you didn't know you'd have thought it was a boy. I guess the family would have none of it until around middle school and by then she was having psychological problems..depression, etc. So they let her do what she wanted. now in high school "the person" has started hormone treatments and wants to go further down the path... |
Author: | pittmike [ Fri May 22, 2015 9:50 am ] |
Post subject: | Re: what age do you let your child change genders? |
I am not certain how this works in these new insane times but I seem to remember things differently. In cases of changing I thought doctors (ethical ones at least) required all sorts of psychological and other testing and waiting periods and other methods before cutting things off so to speak. I do not think it is something you wake up and just do. Being a father of teenagers I cannot see a way in which a 14 year old convinces someone beyond any doubt that then is the time for this change. |
Author: | SomeGuy [ Fri May 22, 2015 9:54 am ] |
Post subject: | Re: what age do you let your child change genders? |
Hatchetman wrote: the joke was that the Polish guy tried the potato trick and wasn't attracting any dudes over in Wrigleyville like he thought he would. turns out he put it in the BACK of his pants. anyhoo. back to the question at hand. the reason this inerests me more than your average bizarre topic is that we actually know a family like this. normal, conservativish catholic family. from about 2nd or 3rd grade, the girl was different. she dressed like a guy, cut her hair short, etc. if you didn't know you'd have thought it was a boy. I guess the family would have none of it until around middle school and by then she was having psychological problems..depression, etc. So they let her do what she wanted. now in high school "the person" has started hormone treatments and wants to go further down the path... ![]() Kid is still a kid, looks like there may have been other issues not discussed or dealt with. Not emotionally developed enough (or physically) to start chopping off body parts and taking hormones. Can't do geometry but hey let's change this kids sex. What could possibly go wrong? |
Author: | IkeSouth [ Fri May 22, 2015 10:27 am ] |
Post subject: | Re: what age do you let your child change genders? |
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=epDPui27QZQ |
Author: | Tad Queasy [ Fri May 22, 2015 10:31 am ] |
Post subject: | Re: what age do you let your child change genders? |
SomeGuy wrote: Hatchetman wrote: the joke was that the Polish guy tried the potato trick and wasn't attracting any dudes over in Wrigleyville like he thought he would. turns out he put it in the BACK of his pants. anyhoo. back to the question at hand. the reason this inerests me more than your average bizarre topic is that we actually know a family like this. normal, conservativish catholic family. from about 2nd or 3rd grade, the girl was different. she dressed like a guy, cut her hair short, etc. if you didn't know you'd have thought it was a boy. I guess the family would have none of it until around middle school and by then she was having psychological problems..depression, etc. So they let her do what she wanted. now in high school "the person" has started hormone treatments and wants to go further down the path... ![]() Kid is still a kid, looks like there may have been other issues not discussed or dealt with. Not emotionally developed enough (or physically) to start chopping off body parts and taking hormones. Can't do geometry but hey let's change this kids sex. What could possibly go wrong? It is insane. On a somewhat related topic, I saw a size 22, 298lb. "supermodel" plastered all over TV today. That's just ducky that she's comfortable with herself at that weight, but it's not healthy and should not be praised or encouraged. Your organs are packed in fat, you're increasing your chances of developing heart disease and diabetes, and your hips and knees are under a tremendous amount of strain. But...YAY! You're so empowered and beautiful! |
Author: | Scorehead [ Fri May 22, 2015 10:35 am ] |
Post subject: | Re: what age do you let your child change genders? |
What if the parents wanted a Boy but had a Girl? Can they have the baby or infant change genders? |
Author: | Seacrest [ Fri May 22, 2015 10:51 am ] |
Post subject: | Re: what age do you let your child change genders? |
Hatchetman wrote: the joke was that the Polish guy tried the potato trick and wasn't attracting any dudes over in Wrigleyville like he thought he would. turns out he put it in the BACK of his pants. anyhoo. back to the question at hand. the reason this inerests me more than your average bizarre topic is that we actually know a family like this. normal, conservativish catholic family. from about 2nd or 3rd grade, the girl was different. she dressed like a guy, cut her hair short, etc. if you didn't know you'd have thought it was a boy. I guess the family would have none of it until around middle school and by then she was having psychological problems..depression, etc. So they let her do what she wanted. now in high school "the person" has started hormone treatments and wants to go further down the path... It's not shocking that parents who let a child do whatever they wanted would have a young adult that was confused about many different things. |
Author: | MattInTheCrown [ Fri May 22, 2015 11:01 am ] |
Post subject: | Re: what age do you let your child change genders? |
Boy, you people better stay off tumblr. |
Author: | Hatchetman [ Fri May 22, 2015 11:03 am ] |
Post subject: | Re: what age do you let your child change genders? |
Well what are you going to do if after 5 years of trying to make your girl a girl, you are not getting anywhere but misery and depression? I would probably let her dress or modify her appearance however she wanted but said no to any medical type stuff, hormones, etc. |
Author: | Councilman Les Whinen [ Fri May 22, 2015 11:10 am ] |
Post subject: | Re: what age do you let your child change genders? |
Tad Queasy wrote: On a somewhat related topic, I saw a size 22, 298lb. "supermodel" plastered all over TV today. That's just ducky that she's comfortable with herself at that weight, but it's not healthy and should not be praised or encouraged. Your organs are packed in fat, you're increasing your chances of developing heart disease and diabetes, and your hips and knees are under a tremendous amount of strain. But...YAY! You're so empowered and beautiful! I think I've seen the same person. A buddy's wife, quite overweight herself, shared a few "empowering" Facebook posts from this mammoth. Truly objectionable. |
Author: | Seacrest [ Fri May 22, 2015 11:16 am ] |
Post subject: | Re: what age do you let your child change genders? |
Hatchetman wrote: Well what are you going to do if after 5 years of trying to make your girl a girl, you are not getting anywhere but misery and depression? I would probably let her dress or modify her appearance however she wanted but said no to any medical type stuff, hormones, etc. Nature made her a girl. Being a parent can be incredibly challenging. Abdicating your role as a parent and allowing a child to do what they want is a recipe for disaster. |
Author: | JORR [ Fri May 22, 2015 11:20 am ] |
Post subject: | Re: what age do you let your child change genders? |
Seacrest wrote: Hatchetman wrote: Well what are you going to do if after 5 years of trying to make your girl a girl, you are not getting anywhere but misery and depression? I would probably let her dress or modify her appearance however she wanted but said no to any medical type stuff, hormones, etc. Nature made her a girl. Being a parent can be incredibly challenging. Abdicating your role as a parent and allowing a child to do what they want is a recipe for disaster. I'm not sure what I think about this. I don't have a strong opinion. But for the sake of argument, I'll say that perhaps nature made her a girl physically, but not in other ways. Do you think nature makes mistakes? Is an abnormality a mistake? Maybe it's deeper than just what the child "wants". |
Author: | Don Tiny [ Fri May 22, 2015 11:21 am ] |
Post subject: | Re: what age do you let your child change genders? |
Scorehead wrote: What if the parents wanted a Boy but had a Girl? Can they have the baby or infant change genders? Well, they've made fake plastic dog balls for years, so maybe that's an option ... |
Author: | Tad Queasy [ Fri May 22, 2015 11:23 am ] |
Post subject: | Re: what age do you let your child change genders? |
Councilman Les Whinen wrote: Tad Queasy wrote: On a somewhat related topic, I saw a size 22, 298lb. "supermodel" plastered all over TV today. That's just ducky that she's comfortable with herself at that weight, but it's not healthy and should not be praised or encouraged. Your organs are packed in fat, you're increasing your chances of developing heart disease and diabetes, and your hips and knees are under a tremendous amount of strain. But...YAY! You're so empowered and beautiful! I think I've seen the same person. A buddy's wife, quite overweight herself, shared a few "empowering" Facebook posts from this mammoth. Truly objectionable. Someone else is living a horribly unhealthy lifestyle so it's OK if I do, too! No matter how much most of us follow a healthy diet and exercise regularly, we're simply not going to look like models. However, that's not an excuse to say "You don't have to be stick thin to be beautiful! #effyourbeautystandards." They're just setting themselves up for a lot of health problems that are relatively easy to avoid. |
Author: | Hatchetman [ Fri May 22, 2015 11:25 am ] |
Post subject: | Re: what age do you let your child change genders? |
if a kid is born with a club foot, should we allow doctors to "fix" that? God made the kid that way for a reason, right? Aren't we interfering with God's plan? |
Author: | JORR [ Fri May 22, 2015 11:26 am ] |
Post subject: | Re: what age do you let your child change genders? |
Hatchetman wrote: if a kid is born with a club foot, should we allow doctors to "fix" that? Only if it can be fixed without a vaccine or gluten. |
Author: | Hatchetman [ Fri May 22, 2015 11:30 am ] |
Post subject: | Re: what age do you let your child change genders? |
Jesus was a BIG FAN of gluten. |
Author: | Don Tiny [ Fri May 22, 2015 11:35 am ] |
Post subject: | Re: what age do you let your child change genders? |
Hatchetman wrote: if a kid is born with a club foot, should we allow doctors to "fix" that? God made the kid that way for a reason, right? Aren't we interfering with God's plan? Now you're badly reaching in hopes to extend the thread ... let it continue on its own for a while, see where the currents take it. |
Author: | Hatchetman [ Fri May 22, 2015 11:43 am ] |
Post subject: | Re: what age do you let your child change genders? |
I don't think I'm reaching. The kid was probably born that way IMO. Some sort of genetic haywire or something. |
Author: | Seacrest [ Fri May 22, 2015 11:45 am ] |
Post subject: | Re: what age do you let your child change genders? |
Hatchetman wrote: if a kid is born with a club foot, should we allow doctors to "fix" that? God made the kid that way for a reason, right? Aren't we interfering with God's plan? A child born with a club foot is far different than a child born to parents who are unable or unwilling to exercise their duties. |
Author: | Curious Hair [ Fri May 22, 2015 12:14 pm ] |
Post subject: | Re: what age do you let your child change genders? |
Councilman Les Whinen wrote: Tad Queasy wrote: On a somewhat related topic, I saw a size 22, 298lb. "supermodel" plastered all over TV today. That's just ducky that she's comfortable with herself at that weight, but it's not healthy and should not be praised or encouraged. Your organs are packed in fat, you're increasing your chances of developing heart disease and diabetes, and your hips and knees are under a tremendous amount of strain. But...YAY! You're so empowered and beautiful! I think I've seen the same person. A buddy's wife, quite overweight herself, shared a few "empowering" Facebook posts from this mammoth. Truly objectionable. Was it Tess Munster? Doing the whole retro pin-up girl thing, but throwing back to a time where Americans were rarely this obese? ![]() |
Author: | Councilman Les Whinen [ Fri May 22, 2015 12:22 pm ] |
Post subject: | Re: what age do you let your child change genders? |
Ugh, that's the one. I felt that this was the one scenario in which it's totally ok to mention a woman and not post a pic for reference. |
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