why did they call him a little white boy?

From my experience growing up, your son and his friends will have to stand up for themselves for shit like this to stop. You can't be everywhere all the time and either can an authority figure. So yeah, fighting the bullies is probably the best approach.

That's not the way things work anymore. You need to try and reason with the bullies while they pummel you from stem to stern. And if you fight back, you get in trouble for defending yourself. It's the modern way. You shouldn't have provoked them.

Spaulding, also have your son punch any asshole who says this after he beats the bully's ass.

Spaulding, also have your son punch any asshole who says this after he beats the bully's ass.

One of my cousin's kids took a long time to grow to above-average size, for all of K-8 he was the smallest kid in his class. New to middle school, some dumbass bully started picking on him, and made the mistake of a shove-punch. Well, my cousin's kid is well trained at Tai Kwon Do, having trained from the age of 4 with his black belt brother as well as in five or six years of formal classes. And thus, after warning the bully that he knew TKD as his instructor had taught him, he kicked the bully in the jaw and almost knocked him unconscious.

Needless to say, my cousin got called to the school and read the riot act by the principal. To which my cousin told the social justice warrior principal to go fuck himself and asked if the principal would like the affluent suburban police who have nothing else to do summoned the next time there is a problem.

There was never a problem again.

So I'm new at this, I did not punch anybody out . My son is 11, doing things on his own. He was with 2 friends at a park, all 3 are 5th graders. 2 7th grades, maybe twins, showed up.

I would honestly say that ignoring them is the best option. Its not like there is any reason to fight. They were just being pieces of shit. There is no legit beef. The older kids sound like they will be lucky to graduate high school. The hell with wasting your time on them.

This actually worked out in pretty much the best possible way.

1) No one was injured.
2) Seemingly, there will be no long term issue.

Sounds like some bored idiot older kids thought it would be funny to scare your kid and his friends. Unless there is a reason why they would not like your son for some reason, and it is unlikely given they aren't in the same grade and probably barely know each other then this should pretty much be older.

What I was always taught was "never start a fight but you should defend yourself if you feel threatened". If it was a bully in the class that is picking on you every day you can then tell them that they need to show that they won't be picked on. The last thing you want though is your kid charging braveheart style after anyone that does something dumb on the playground.

We need more details.

Move.

It wasn't going to be an even fight if he responded with aggression as the difference in size between 5th and 7th grade is pretty stark. Sure you stand your ground in some situations, but this one was probably not a good time.

If some kids did this to my newphew or niece... I would take great pleasure in grabbing those little kids by their necks and throwing them across the playground.