Just keep it alive until she ends it. It's always worked for me!

I don't think anyone owes anyone else an explicit explanation of their long term intentions. This isn't the Victorian era. For all you know she's riding along with you because you're a fun guy with lots of disposable cash. Maybe she's telling her friends, "This is fun for now, but I know it isn't going anywhere. That fucker is old!" Live in the moment. Allow relationships to develop organically rather than looking for levels like a video game.

I don't think anyone owes anyone else an explicit explanation of their long term intentions. This isn't the Victorian era. For all you know she's riding along with you because you're a fun guy with lots of disposable cash. Maybe she's telling her friends, "This is fun for now, but I know it isn't going anywhere. That fucker is old!" Live in the moment. Allow relationships to develop organically rather than looking for levels like a video game.

my motto is don't waste time with a woman you wouldn't consider marrying.

you can have fun with a woman you would consider marrying.

Been dating this girl since last September, she lives in another state.

She's crazy pretty, great fun to be around, smaht and all that; but she's young, too young for me and the long-distance thing.

We're going to new york next weekend. At least we're supposed to. Both airfares (southwest, so no change fees), hotel, concert and broadway shows and tourist-pass attraction things all bought and pre-paid for (about $3K total). She's very excited to go to new york city, she's never been. I've been to new york many a time, great place.

Anyhow, I don't see this whole thing working out. And plan on conveying that to her sooner than later.

Should I still go to nyc with her next weekend? if we go to nyc together and then a few weeks later that's it, seems like a shit thing for her. gnomesayin. i could tell her ahead of time and she could go to new york with a friend or something instead.

do i tell her it's not going to continue after new york when we're on top the Empire State building watching the sun set beyond the Hudson River the first night we're there? Or on the uber ride back to LaGuardia the following week?

do i tell her it's not going to continue after new york when we're on top the Empire State building watching the sun set beyond the Hudson River the first night we're there? Or on the uber ride back to LaGuardia the following week?

I'll prolly tell her when we're both mad drunk at 3 AM at some lower east side dive. If any of those still exist. I hope Fish Bar is still there.