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Author:  C_Howitt_Fealz [ Mon Aug 27, 2012 7:16 pm ]
Post subject:  Facebook

Mr. Fealz' first girlfriend was a real stunner. Beautiful little woman from India, a Muslim who he was really wild about. Mr. Fealz and this beautiful young woman had a very passionate relationship, the type that really would have gotten her in a boatload of trouble.

The religion part never bothered me. But her family, and my family, were steadfastly opposed. I remember being at a Border's looking at books, holding hands and about to kiss when her cousin rounded the corner. "Oh you must be Mr. Fealz," he said with a glare. There was a lot of stress back then, and I walked away out of fear. Cried a lot, hurt a lot. From time to time she'd pop up in a thought or dream, or I'd think of some old things while waxing the carrot. But she was pretty much out of mind. That whole time was pretty much out of mind.

Today, here's an invite to friend her. God did the memories come rushing back. Even though it's been 14 years now seeing her picture - her husband, her kids - shit that opened wounds that I wasn't ready to deal with.

Author:  MartyFeldmansGoodEye [ Mon Aug 27, 2012 8:06 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Facebook

Think how Neil Armstrong fealz.




Image

Author:  Chris_in_joliet [ Mon Aug 27, 2012 8:36 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Facebook

Being a teenage girl is apparently very tough right Feelz?

Author:  FavreFan [ Mon Aug 27, 2012 8:53 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Facebook

Chris_in_joliet wrote:
Being a teenage girl is apparently very tough right Feelz?

I agree. Feelings are for pussies.


Sorry to hear that fealz. Sucks when shit that you had put away gets opened back up like that inadvertently.

Author:  Crystal Lake Hoffy [ Mon Aug 27, 2012 9:29 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Facebook

Stop living in the past.

Author:  donspiracy [ Mon Aug 27, 2012 9:42 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Facebook

Seriously???

Just don't accept the request.

Author:  The Original Kid Cairo [ Mon Aug 27, 2012 9:49 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Facebook

donspiracy wrote:
Seriously???

Just don't accept the request.

This was my thought. Not sure that the dilemma should've been as complicated as Fealz made it.

Author:  spmack [ Mon Aug 27, 2012 9:50 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Facebook

Crystal Lake Hoffy wrote:
Stop living in the past.

Not everyone can marry their first and only girlfriend Hoffy like you.

Author:  Crystal Lake Hoffy [ Mon Aug 27, 2012 9:53 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Facebook

spmack wrote:
Crystal Lake Hoffy wrote:
Stop living in the past.

Not everyone can marry their first and only girlfriend Hoffy like you.


Uh... right. I had multiple girlfriends. After I dumped one of them, she dated three guys at the same time, including my best friend. Im pretty sure if she tried to friend me, I would simply say no.

Author:  Rod [ Mon Aug 27, 2012 9:57 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Facebook

Look, Fealz, she ain't askin' you to jump up and do anything. She's tellin' you to run and come back to her. Because just now she realized she loves you as much as you love her.

Author:  The Original Kid Cairo [ Mon Aug 27, 2012 9:58 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Facebook

Joe Orr Road Rod wrote:
Look, Fealz, she ain't askin' you to jump up and do anything. She's tellin' you to run and come back to her. Because just now she realized she loves you as much as you love her.

Oh JORR...

Author:  Hank Scorpio [ Mon Aug 27, 2012 10:03 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Facebook

I dont think that she friend requested him. I think that she came up in the 'people you may know'. Section. I keeping seeing people in that section that I know have died. That is a bit of a mindblow when it happens.

Author:  spmack [ Mon Aug 27, 2012 10:04 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Facebook

Crystal Lake Hoffy wrote:
spmack wrote:
Crystal Lake Hoffy wrote:
Stop living in the past.

Not everyone can marry their first and only girlfriend Hoffy like you.


Uh... right. I had multiple girlfriends. After I dumped one of them, she dated three guys at the same time, including my best friend. Im pretty sure if she tried to friend me, I would simply say no.

:shock: One in the pink, one in the stink, and one in the drink?

Author:  C_Howitt_Fealz [ Mon Aug 27, 2012 10:16 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Facebook

No, this was a request.

Author:  Hank Scorpio [ Mon Aug 27, 2012 10:26 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Facebook

Fuck that then... Dont accept that request.

Author:  Don Tiny [ Mon Aug 27, 2012 10:29 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Facebook

Pardon the shocking tone of my post, but I would take a couple sentences to politely decline and be honest and say you're not sure the opportunity would prove to be enjoyable for you. Simple, clean, thoughtful to both of you, up-front, and done.

Author:  Hank Scorpio [ Mon Aug 27, 2012 10:32 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Facebook

Don Tiny wrote:
Pardon the shocking tone of my post, but I would take a couple sentences to politely decline and be honest and say you're not sure the opportunity would prove to be enjoyable for you. Simple, clean, thoughtful to both of you, up-front, and done.


YOu forgot the crude, smart-ass part of your crude smart ass post. :twisted:

Author:  Don Tiny [ Mon Aug 27, 2012 10:41 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Facebook

Hank Scorpio wrote:
Don Tiny wrote:
Pardon the shocking tone of my post, but I would take a couple sentences to politely decline and be honest and say you're not sure the opportunity would prove to be enjoyable for you. Simple, clean, thoughtful to both of you, up-front, and done.


YOu forgot the crude, smart-ass part of your crude smart ass post. :twisted:


Nah ... I figure my ever-present undertone of "you're a fucking idiot for being on Facebook to begin with" is there if you know my previous work.

Author:  Colonel Angus [ Mon Aug 27, 2012 10:47 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Facebook

Accept her friend request and ask her if she's into "The Menage". She'll think you're disgusting & block you, making things a lot easier for you.

Author:  pittmike [ Tue Aug 28, 2012 5:04 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Facebook

Maybe she wants you on the side?

Author:  Crystal Lake Hoffy [ Tue Aug 28, 2012 6:46 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Facebook

I was so good, one of my ex-girlfriends dated three guys after me, at the same time. So I assume it takes three guys to reach my quality level.

Author:  rogers park bryan [ Tue Aug 28, 2012 7:40 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Facebook

That sucks. Block her.

Author:  Rod [ Tue Aug 28, 2012 7:45 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Facebook

Let's be realistic. Blocking her doesn't do shit. He knows she's out there. He isn't going to be able to help himself from stalking her page.

Author:  rogers park bryan [ Tue Aug 28, 2012 7:47 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Facebook

Joe Orr Road Rod wrote:
Let's be realistic. Blocking her doesn't do shit. He knows she's out there. He isn't going to be able to help himself from stalking her page.

That's why he needs to block her.


You cant unblock someone for like 24 hours or something. So every time he has a hankering for stalking, he'll have a day to consider it and think better of it.

Author:  The Original Kid Cairo [ Tue Aug 28, 2012 7:58 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Facebook

This is going to sound mean, but this whole thing is just disturbingly stupid.

Author:  Hawg Ass [ Tue Aug 28, 2012 7:59 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Facebook

The Original Kid Cairo wrote:
This is going to sound mean, but this whole thing is just disturbingly stupid.

Agreed

Author:  The Original Kid Cairo [ Tue Aug 28, 2012 8:05 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Facebook

Hawg Ass wrote:
The Original Kid Cairo wrote:
This is going to sound mean, but this whole thing is just disturbingly stupid.

Agreed

Seriously...

He's acting like he has no control over whom he can accept a friend request from.

Every now and then, C. Howitt comes out of the woodwork with some straight up head-scratching shit.

Author:  rogers park bryan [ Tue Aug 28, 2012 8:08 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Facebook

The Original Kid Cairo wrote:
This is going to sound mean, but this whole thing is just disturbingly stupid.

So you dont understand someone having mixed/conflicting feelings when a significant EX pops up out of nowhere?

The request doesnt matter. She's out there. He knows it. He's gonna have to deal with it somehow. Either let it go or stalking.

It might not be a life and death situation, but it does kinda suck.

I expect you to understand that.

Author:  good dolphin [ Tue Aug 28, 2012 8:09 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Facebook

The Original Kid Cairo wrote:
Hawg Ass wrote:
The Original Kid Cairo wrote:
This is going to sound mean, but this whole thing is just disturbingly stupid.

Agreed

Seriously...

He's acting like he has no control over whom he can accept a friend request from.

Every now and then, C. Howitt comes out of the woodwork with some straight up head-scratching shit.


I'm not into facebook so I thought I may have been missing something. Accepting her friend request does not oblige you to do anything further. Not accepting has no penalty. What is the big deal? You got your little peepee wet for a couple of months a couple of decades ago. Get over it.

Author:  Hawg Ass [ Tue Aug 28, 2012 8:12 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Facebook

The Original Kid Cairo wrote:
Hawg Ass wrote:
The Original Kid Cairo wrote:
This is going to sound mean, but this whole thing is just disturbingly stupid.

Agreed

Seriously...

He's acting like he has no control over whom he can accept a friend request from.

Every now and then, C. Howitt comes out of the woodwork with some straight up head-scratching shit.

Yeah, I don't know how old he is, but there is no way I would let it bother me to this point. I am sure we are different and there is no way in hell I would post about it here.

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