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Author: | Elmhurst Steve [ Mon Aug 26, 2013 9:35 pm ] |
Post subject: | Stepfather/Mother of 11 year old shot |
One day before she was to begin school an 11 year old girl was shot on her front porch in the 2300 block of North Kostner on Sunday. An unidentified woman walked by while the youngster and 3 others were gathered on the stoop after a party at the residence ended. The shooting took place AT FOUR AM! What the hell is an 11 year old doing up at 4 am the day before she was to begin classes? the Stepfather and Mother should be investigated, as they are obviously neglecting any semblance of parental responsibilities one might expect of them. |
Author: | The Original Kid Cairo [ Mon Aug 26, 2013 9:45 pm ] |
Post subject: | Re: Stepfather/Mother of 11 year old shot |
That was my initial thought when I saw the story this morning. |
Author: | jimmypasta [ Mon Aug 26, 2013 9:48 pm ] |
Post subject: | Re: Stepfather/Mother of 11 year old shot |
Dan Jiggets always said: "Nothing good happens after 2 in the morning" I used to tell my kids the same thing. Still not a reason to get shot. |
Author: | Elmhurst Steve [ Mon Aug 26, 2013 9:52 pm ] |
Post subject: | Re: Stepfather/Mother of 11 year old shot |
jimmypasta wrote: Dan Jiggets always said: "Nothing good happens after 2 in the morning" I used to tell my kids the same thing. Still not a reason to get shot. No- and I am not saying she deserved to get shot because she was hanging out on a stoop at 4am by any means. I'm just saying that it's awful parenting, to allow an 11 year old to be out at 4 am ANY time, much less the day before she was to go back to school. |
Author: | Urlacher's missing neck [ Mon Aug 26, 2013 9:54 pm ] |
Post subject: | Re: Stepfather/Mother of 11 year old shot |
The kid could have been sleeping and came down to the porch to tell her dumbass parents that she can't sleep due to the loud noises from their party. |
Author: | jimmypasta [ Mon Aug 26, 2013 9:56 pm ] |
Post subject: | Re: Stepfather/Mother of 11 year old shot |
Sure,I agree. The front porch was a way of life for most in my Chicago neighborhood growing up (Grand & Avers). I knew just about every family on the block growing up. Nobody ever worried about getting shot. |
Author: | Elmhurst Steve [ Mon Aug 26, 2013 10:05 pm ] |
Post subject: | Re: Stepfather/Mother of 11 year old shot |
Urlacher's missing neck wrote: The kid could have been sleeping and came down to the porch to tell her dumbass parents that she can't sleep due to the loud noises from their party. Except the story in the newspaper says she was hanging out with 3 other kids on the stoop at 4am ( after a party at the residence had ended) when the woman walked by and shot 5 bullets at the group. But go ahead and make up things that never happened and ignore the facts of what actually happened, if that works better for you.... |
Author: | Chus [ Mon Aug 26, 2013 10:07 pm ] |
Post subject: | Re: Stepfather/Mother of 11 year old shot |
The biggest DB is the person who fired the gun. |
Author: | Urlacher's missing neck [ Mon Aug 26, 2013 10:11 pm ] |
Post subject: | Re: Stepfather/Mother of 11 year old shot |
Elmhurst Steve wrote: Urlacher's missing neck wrote: The kid could have been sleeping and came down to the porch to tell her dumbass parents that she can't sleep due to the loud noises from their party. Except the story in the newspaper says she was hanging out with 3 other kids on the stoop at 4am ( after a party at the residence had ended) when the woman walked by and shot 5 bullets at the group. But go ahead and make up things that never happened and ignore the facts of what actually happened, if that works better for you.... Quote: An unidentified woman walked by while the youngster and 3 others were gathered on the stoop after a party at the residence ended. I went off what you wrote. You didn't link the fucking story and I'm not looking it up because I don't really care. You wrote "Others".....not other kids. You wrote "gathered" not hanging out. |
Author: | jimmypasta [ Mon Aug 26, 2013 10:20 pm ] |
Post subject: | Re: Stepfather/Mother of 11 year old shot |
UMN has a very likely scenario there,but who knows? It's a sick world,that we can all agree on.(?) |
Author: | Colonel Angus [ Mon Aug 26, 2013 10:48 pm ] |
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jimmypasta wrote: Sure,I agree. The front porch was a way of life for most in my Chicago neighborhood growing up (Grand & Avers). I knew just about every family on the block growing up. Nobody ever worried about getting shot. That's because nobody had yet to create the gun. |
Author: | jimmypasta [ Mon Aug 26, 2013 10:51 pm ] |
Post subject: | Re: Stepfather/Mother of 11 year old shot |
Colonel Angus wrote: jimmypasta wrote: Sure,I agree. The front porch was a way of life for most in my Chicago neighborhood growing up (Grand & Avers). I knew just about every family on the block growing up. Nobody ever worried about getting shot. That's because nobody had yet to create the gun. |
Author: | The Original Kid Cairo [ Mon Aug 26, 2013 10:57 pm ] |
Post subject: | Re: Stepfather/Mother of 11 year old shot |
Chus wrote: The biggest DB is the person who fired the gun. That's obvious. The kids still shouldn't have been outside at 4am. |
Author: | Elmhurst Steve [ Tue Aug 27, 2013 7:52 am ] |
Post subject: | Re: Stepfather/Mother of 11 year old shot |
I find it interesting that few seem to be bothered by the fact that this 11 year old was out on her stoop at 4am the day before school was to begin for her. Just how alert and attentive is the 11 year old going to be, when the Mother and stepfather are having a party till the early morning hours and still awake and hanging out at 4am? Just as it is a coach's job to put his/her athletes in a position to succeed, it is a parents job to do the same with their child. Having a child up at 4am the day before school begins, is an epic fail. That child is going to be so tired that she is likely to be falling asleep. If not asleep, most likely not attentive. It's awful parenting. Yes, the woman doing the shooting was far worse. I am not comparing the two. But these parents put this child in jeopardy by allowing her to stay up and be outside on that stoop at 4am. I hope they catch the shooter and if they do, I hope the judge gives those parents some stern advice about allowing an 11 year old to be on that stoop at 4am. |
Author: | Brick [ Tue Aug 27, 2013 7:54 am ] |
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Kids should be allowed to sleep when they want. They have rights too. |
Author: | Frank Coztansa [ Tue Aug 27, 2013 8:06 am ] |
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The Original Kid Cairo wrote: Chus wrote: The biggest DB is the person who fired the gun. That's obvious. The kids still shouldn't have been outside at 4am. |
Author: | rogers park bryan [ Tue Aug 27, 2013 8:09 am ] |
Post subject: | Re: Stepfather/Mother of 11 year old shot |
Newsflash Steve: Kids dont like to go to bed What are you gonna do? Argue with them? |
Author: | Douchebag [ Tue Aug 27, 2013 8:14 am ] |
Post subject: | Re: Stepfather/Mother of 11 year old shot |
Elmhurst Steve wrote: I find it interesting that few seem to be bothered by the fact that this 11 year old was out on her stoop at 4am the day before school was to begin for her. Just how alert and attentive is the 11 year old going to be, when the Mother and stepfather are having a party till the early morning hours and still awake and hanging out at 4am? Just as it is a coach's job to put his/her athletes in a position to succeed, it is a parents job to do the same with their child. Having a child up at 4am the day before school begins, is an epic fail. That child is going to be so tired that she is likely to be falling asleep. If not asleep, most likely not attentive. It's awful parenting. Yes, the woman doing the shooting was far worse. I am not comparing the two. But these parents put this child in jeopardy by allowing her to stay up and be outside on that stoop at 4am. I hope they catch the shooter and if they do, I hope the judge gives those parents some stern advice about allowing an 11 year old to be on that stoop at 4am. Maybe the kid is an early riser. My Grandma gets up everyday around 4:00 AM. |
Author: | Bagels [ Tue Aug 27, 2013 8:18 am ] |
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Douchebag wrote: Elmhurst Steve wrote: I find it interesting that few seem to be bothered by the fact that this 11 year old was out on her stoop at 4am the day before school was to begin for her. Just how alert and attentive is the 11 year old going to be, when the Mother and stepfather are having a party till the early morning hours and still awake and hanging out at 4am? Just as it is a coach's job to put his/her athletes in a position to succeed, it is a parents job to do the same with their child. Having a child up at 4am the day before school begins, is an epic fail. That child is going to be so tired that she is likely to be falling asleep. If not asleep, most likely not attentive. It's awful parenting. Yes, the woman doing the shooting was far worse. I am not comparing the two. But these parents put this child in jeopardy by allowing her to stay up and be outside on that stoop at 4am. I hope they catch the shooter and if they do, I hope the judge gives those parents some stern advice about allowing an 11 year old to be on that stoop at 4am. Maybe the kid is an early riser. My Grandma gets up everyday around 4:00 AM. so he can get the early bird special ? |
Author: | jimmypasta [ Tue Aug 27, 2013 8:20 am ] |
Post subject: | Re: Stepfather/Mother of 11 year old shot |
Bagels wrote: Douchebag wrote: Elmhurst Steve wrote: I find it interesting that few seem to be bothered by the fact that this 11 year old was out on her stoop at 4am the day before school was to begin for her. Just how alert and attentive is the 11 year old going to be, when the Mother and stepfather are having a party till the early morning hours and still awake and hanging out at 4am? Just as it is a coach's job to put his/her athletes in a position to succeed, it is a parents job to do the same with their child. Having a child up at 4am the day before school begins, is an epic fail. That child is going to be so tired that she is likely to be falling asleep. If not asleep, most likely not attentive. It's awful parenting. Yes, the woman doing the shooting was far worse. I am not comparing the two. But these parents put this child in jeopardy by allowing her to stay up and be outside on that stoop at 4am. I hope they catch the shooter and if they do, I hope the judge gives those parents some stern advice about allowing an 11 year old to be on that stoop at 4am. Maybe the kid is an early riser. My Grandma gets up everyday around 4:00 AM. so he can get the early bird special ? Wait,DB's grandma is a dude? |
Author: | good dolphin [ Tue Aug 27, 2013 8:23 am ] |
Post subject: | Re: Stepfather/Mother of 11 year old shot |
Maybe they woke up extra early for school that day rather than the assumed staying up late |
Author: | The Original Kid Cairo [ Tue Aug 27, 2013 8:24 am ] |
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Steve won't see the sarcasm in DB's post. He'll take it literally, which will make his response funnier. |
Author: | Frank Coztansa [ Tue Aug 27, 2013 8:40 am ] |
Post subject: | Re: Stepfather/Mother of 11 year old shot |
good dolphin wrote: Maybe they woke up extra early for school that day rather than the assumed staying up late Up at 4am for Sunday School huh?
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Author: | rogers park bryan [ Tue Aug 27, 2013 8:40 am ] |
Post subject: | Re: Stepfather/Mother of 11 year old shot |
good dolphin wrote: Maybe they woke up extra early for school that day rather than the assumed staying up late It was sunday. They were up 26 hours early But, again, it's their bodies and their choice, I think its very unreasonable to assume one person can make another person go to sleep at a certain time. This is America, after all |
Author: | Brick [ Tue Aug 27, 2013 8:49 am ] |
Post subject: | Re: Stepfather/Mother of 11 year old shot |
Steve is the same guy that would be mad if the parents let the child oversleep and missed the first day of school. |
Author: | Chus [ Tue Aug 27, 2013 8:52 am ] |
Post subject: | Re: Stepfather/Mother of 11 year old shot |
Bagels wrote: Douchebag wrote: Elmhurst Steve wrote: I find it interesting that few seem to be bothered by the fact that this 11 year old was out on her stoop at 4am the day before school was to begin for her. Just how alert and attentive is the 11 year old going to be, when the Mother and stepfather are having a party till the early morning hours and still awake and hanging out at 4am? Just as it is a coach's job to put his/her athletes in a position to succeed, it is a parents job to do the same with their child. Having a child up at 4am the day before school begins, is an epic fail. That child is going to be so tired that she is likely to be falling asleep. If not asleep, most likely not attentive. It's awful parenting. Yes, the woman doing the shooting was far worse. I am not comparing the two. But these parents put this child in jeopardy by allowing her to stay up and be outside on that stoop at 4am. I hope they catch the shooter and if they do, I hope the judge gives those parents some stern advice about allowing an 11 year old to be on that stoop at 4am. Maybe the kid is an early riser. My Grandma gets up everyday around 4:00 AM. so he can get the early bird special ? They give you a tenderloin, a salad and a baked potato, for four-ninety-five. Do you know what that costs you after six? |
Author: | rogers park bryan [ Tue Aug 27, 2013 8:53 am ] |
Post subject: | Re: Stepfather/Mother of 11 year old shot |
Boilermaker Rick wrote: Steve is the same guy that would be mad if the parents let the child oversleep and missed the first day of school. They were probably going to church |
Author: | Elmhurst Steve [ Thu Aug 29, 2013 7:46 am ] |
Post subject: | Re: Stepfather/Mother of 11 year old shot |
Boilermaker Rick wrote: Steve is the same guy that would be mad if the parents let the child oversleep and missed the first day of school. I wouldn't be mad, but I would be critical of it. I'm not mad at these parents, but I am critical of them....big difference. Why would I be mad? They aren't my kids, so if they are falling asleep in school, not attentive to the teacher and not learning as they should, it has little effect on me. I just think they are lousy parents, to be having a party that lasts into the morning and have that 11 year old still up and hanging out on their stoop at 4am. Would I also be critical of a parent that allows their child to oversleep and miss the first day of school? First off, why would the child miss the first day of school if they oversleep? Are they sleeping an extra 7-8 hours, so as to sleep through every class? If they failed to get up on time, you drive them to school as quickly as possible and they are tardy, but don't miss the day of school. But yes, not getting the kid up on time and off to school is also poor parenting. If you have to throw a bucket of ice water on them to get their ass up, that's what you do. Most kids have few responsibilities, but the one important one they have, is to get to school on time and do their school work to the best of their abilities. Not too much to ask. After all, you want them to go to a good school and not have to settle for somewhere like Purdue. |
Author: | conns7901 [ Thu Aug 29, 2013 10:24 am ] |
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Elmhurst Steve wrote: I just think they are lousy parents, What about parents that brag about cheating on their wives, are they lousy too? |
Author: | Brick [ Thu Aug 29, 2013 12:26 pm ] |
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Elmhurst Steve wrote: Boilermaker Rick wrote: Steve is the same guy that would be mad if the parents let the child oversleep and missed the first day of school. I wouldn't be mad, but I would be critical of it. I'm not mad at these parents, but I am critical of them....big difference. Why would I be mad? They aren't my kids, so if they are falling asleep in school, not attentive to the teacher and not learning as they should, it has little effect on me. I just think they are lousy parents, to be having a party that lasts into the morning and have that 11 year old still up and hanging out on their stoop at 4am. Would I also be critical of a parent that allows their child to oversleep and miss the first day of school? First off, why would the child miss the first day of school if they oversleep? Are they sleeping an extra 7-8 hours, so as to sleep through every class? If they failed to get up on time, you drive them to school as quickly as possible and they are tardy, but don't miss the day of school. But yes, not getting the kid up on time and off to school is also poor parenting. If you have to throw a bucket of ice water on them to get their ass up, that's what you do. Most kids have few responsibilities, but the one important one they have, is to get to school on time and do their school work to the best of their abilities. Not too much to ask. Elmhurst Steve wrote: After all, you want them to go to a good school and not have to settle for somewhere like Purdue. Purdue is one of the top 25 schools in the country for what I went for. Did your college have a top 25 house painting program?
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