Q.Bovifs wrote:
Sorry for pm'ing you, but I'd like to see you find a way out of this recent malaise.
You can post this, chastise me for sending it, or refer to it - or not, doesn't bother me either way.
Anyways, if I could suggest a quick tinkering that might work, a very simple one would be this:
No matter what anyone here says about or to you, instead of typing a predictable response that would be serious, bitter/nasty, sad, or otherwise overly-dramatic, replace that with a funny observation, thought, or witty quip - or anything really that is just a different method. Trip 'em up. Even if you are ripping someone's ass - don't stop defending yourself from attack - just keep it funny and a bit ironic, and you will evolve from your current position into a celebrated poster.
Just my 2-Cents, take it or leave it.
There is a definitely place for you here, because, whether you know what you are talking about or not, you routinely challenge the power structure here. That is good. Power cannot go unchecked. Who cares if you make the power-abusing posters here uncomfortable. They should be for having allowed themselves to devolve into such megalomaniacs anyhow. Just change your tact to a more creative and appreciated one, or at the very least less predictable, and you go from pariah to Legend.
For the record: I don't think it is a good thing necessarily that you listen to everyone telling you how to think - don't change that - that is who you are. Just change the delivery - i.e. the vessel that contains your message. Make it a more welcome form, and you don't leave embarrassing openings for your foes' reprisals.
And if they do try to pop your birthday balloon anyhow? Who cares? Let it roll off of your back and respond with something that shows that they are the trouble-maker and that also conforms that you possess both a heightened sense of levity and humor.
Like some wise person once said, "Don't ever let 'em see you sweat!"
Best,
-PP
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