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Is Homosexuality curable or treatable through therapy?
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Why the hell anyone gives a rats ass what happens in someone else's bedroom is far beyond me.

Your statement is the beginning and the end of my interest in the topic. Perfectly stated.

Again...I'm not against your side of the topic, but to play devil's advocate:

Gays and lesbians don't confine 100% of their interactions to the bedroom, and many people who are against same-sex relationships are against more than just the sex portion. They do not want themselves or their families subjected to any part of it...as it leads to them having to explain things they feel as unnatural, and simply wrong.

And yes, that is on them. But it is their viewpoint...


I know you're playing devil's advocate, so this isn't directed at you, but I don't find that sort of reasoning to be compelling at all. If that's an issue for some, then their problem is not homosexuality, but the exercise of free will. In any open society you're going to be exposed to all sorts of things you may find objectionable or not, so it's difficult to see why same-sex relationships in particular would be singled out to the extent that you'd go out of your way to condemn them in ways that you wouldn't do for all other activities and norms you happen to not like as well.


Correct.

If you don't want to be exposed to things that may make you uncomfortable, the solution is to stay in your house. Then you'll never have to see those "those people".

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As I understand it, it is not an established fact and their are experts and doctors who would agree with me

If you are saying that it's a proven scientific fact that gayness can be cured, then Ill have to say, I did not know that.

But it would be nice if you would cite some evidence rather than you saying over and over "there is a lot of evidence"


This was published 12 years ago. Has there been new studies or proof?

Changing Sexual Orientation: A Consumer's Report[edit source | editbeta]
Ariel Shidlo and Michael Schroeder found in "Changing Sexual Orientation: A Consumer's Report", a peer-reviewed study of 202 respondents[101] published in 2002, that 88% of participants failed to achieve a sustained change in their sexual behavior and 3% reported changing their orientation to heterosexual. The remainder reported either losing all sexual drive or attempting to remain celibate, with no change in attraction. Some of the participants who failed felt a sense of shame and had gone through conversion therapy programs for many years. Others who failed believed that therapy was worthwhile and valuable. Shidlo and Schroeder also reported that many respondents were harmed by the attempt to change, causing; depression, suicidal ideation and attempts, hypervigilance of gender-deviant mannerisms,social isolation, fear of being a child abuser and poor self-esteem. Of the 8 respondents (out of a sample of 202) who reported a change in sexual orientation, 7 worked as ex-gay counselors or group leaders.[102] NARTH states that the Shidlo study has often been used by gay activists as "proof" that conversion therapy is on average harmful, but they advertised for study participants with an ad that said, "Help Us Document the Harm".[65] The Shidlo-Schroeder recruitment poster is available at NARTH online,[103] stating that the study's authors did not seek to measure the average outcome of conversion therapy, although their study has often been used by activists as if it had, in fact, sought a representative sample; the lack of a representative sample therefore means that the 80% failure rate, cited above in this same paragraph, should be taken with caution. The study does show however that qualitatively conversion therapy can cause significant harm.



Do you disagree with that assessment?


A couple of things.

Your posted study has some scientific issues inherent within it.

With that being said, it still puts forth that therapy did cure some of the participants.

Well then I was wrong to completely dismiss it but, and I hate to say this, it was ignorance on my part not lying. Important distinction

I would say that I would still be skeptical if someone told me they were no longer gay. I can't pretend there aren't a lot of people who suppress gay feelings because of the stigma and tougher road.


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Anyways thanks for all the replies everyone but I think I'm gonna just go cold turkey


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Anyways thanks for all the replies everyone but I think I'm gonna just go cold turkey


You don't need to be cured. We love you just the way you are.

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If that's an issue for some, then their problem is not homosexuality, but the exercise of free will.

You've read the political discussions here, right? The majority of the people have a problem with the exercise of free will.

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Anyways thanks for all the replies everyone but I think I'm gonna just go cold turkey


That's the best way to give up being a vegetarian.

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In this and some other recent threads I notice some things that parallel what I see in the general world especially social media. There has been a clear shift of acceptance for a lot of things, in this case gays. Of course this is good. I also notice though a lack of acceptance or maybe respect for the peoe that have religious views.

I am pretty agnostic so I don't have a dog in the fight but I doubt in most circles you could speak about gay or other views the way some talk about religious ones.

I partially agree with this.

I agree that Christianity is a lot more acceptable to mock as a demographic than almost every other demo in this PC world. However, the Christians that teach hate and intolerance are only perpetuating the idea that its ok to mock them. After all, we have no problems mocking/insulting groups like the KKK.

The other contrast that is immediately noticeable between gays and evangelicals is just how much more aggressive, insulting, and controlling one group is. We don't really have gay people openly wondering if faith in God is curable. We don't really have gay people telling evangelicals that any public display of faith should be banned because its offensive to the community. We don't really have gay people trying to lobby and influence Congress in an attempt to control people's lives. Most importantly, we don't have evangelical Christians fighting not to be treated as second class citizens in regards to the people they love.

So, I agree that they are not treated equally mike. But I also don't think they should be.

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In this and some other recent threads I notice some things that parallel what I see in the general world especially social media. There has been a clear shift of acceptance for a lot of things, in this case gays. Of course this is good. I also notice though a lack of acceptance or maybe respect for the peoe that have religious views.

I am pretty agnostic so I don't have a dog in the fight but I doubt in most circles you could speak about gay or other views the way some talk about religious ones.

I partially agree with this.

I agree that Christianity is a lot more acceptable to mock as a demographic than almost every other demo in this PC world. However, the Christians that teach hate and intolerance are only perpetuating the idea that its ok to mock them. After all, we have no problems mocking/insulting groups like the KKK.

The other contrast that is immediately noticeable between gays and evangelicals is just how much more aggressive, insulting, and controlling one group is. We don't really have gay people openly wondering if faith in God is curable. We don't really have gay people telling evangelicals that any public display of faith should be banned because its offensive to the community. We don't really have gay people trying to lobby and influence Congress in an attempt to control people's lives. Most importantly, we don't have evangelical Christians fighting not to be treated as second class citizens in regards to the people they love.

So, I agree that they are not treated equally mike. But I also don't think they should be.


Really then why all the lawsuits and shit about Nativity scenes? Did you follow the Gay Marriage debate in California,the LBGT community was laying into the Mormons pretty hard. Trying to lobby Congress? What about all the shit about the defense of marriage act and that nonsense? You are looking at the situation in a real narrow viewpoint.
This is very much of a small percentage of the community trying to tell the majority they way to think and act. They are trying to tell me that I should accept and be okay with how they want to live their lives and conduct themselves. If it was just confined to the bedroom then it would not be a big deal,when it is out in public and forced upon me then I have a problem. I do not like to eat fish,it is as if someone told me I had to eat fish no matter how I felt about it.

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pittmike wrote:
In this and some other recent threads I notice some things that parallel what I see in the general world especially social media. There has been a clear shift of acceptance for a lot of things, in this case gays. Of course this is good. I also notice though a lack of acceptance or maybe respect for the peoe that have religious views.

I am pretty agnostic so I don't have a dog in the fight but I doubt in most circles you could speak about gay or other views the way some talk about religious ones.

I partially agree with this.

I agree that Christianity is a lot more acceptable to mock as a demographic than almost every other demo in this PC world. However, the Christians that teach hate and intolerance are only perpetuating the idea that its ok to mock them. After all, we have no problems mocking/insulting groups like the KKK.

The other contrast that is immediately noticeable between gays and evangelicals is just how much more aggressive, insulting, and controlling one group is. We don't really have gay people openly wondering if faith in God is curable. We don't really have gay people telling evangelicals that any public display of faith should be banned because its offensive to the community. We don't really have gay people trying to lobby and influence Congress in an attempt to control people's lives. Most importantly, we don't have evangelical Christians fighting not to be treated as second class citizens in regards to the people they love.

So, I agree that they are not treated equally mike. But I also don't think they should be.


Really then why all the lawsuits and shit about Nativity scenes? Did you follow the Gay Marriage debate in California,the LBGT community was laying into the Mormons pretty hard. Trying to lobby Congress? What about all the shit about the defense of marriage act and that nonsense? You are looking at the situation in a real narrow viewpoint.
This is very much of a small percentage of the community trying to tell the majority they way to think and act. They are trying to tell me that I should accept and be okay with how they want to live their lives and conduct themselves. If it was just confined to the bedroom then it would not be a big deal,when it is out in public and forced upon me then I have a problem. I do not like to eat fish,it is as if someone told me I had to eat fish no matter how I felt about it.


:lol:

It's not like that at all. Unless people are making you be gay.

It is like people eating fish where you can see it.

If you don't want to come across anything you might not like, stay in your house.

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"I don't like it/I'm offended by it." is pretty much the worst reasoning ever concocted for outlawing something.

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"I don't like it/I'm offended by it." is pretty much the worst reasoning ever concocted for outlawing something.


I am not saying that. I have no problem with what people do as long as they do not try and tell me how I should feel about it. It is one of my major problems with Islam and those that follow it.
So if that is the worst reason for that then why do we have laws against bestiality or necrophilia?

Okay Terry Peep, If I do not want to deal with it stay in my house. Why should the majority have to do that for the sake of a minority. They do not want to be treated equal in that respect they wan the majority to bend to their will.
Once again you want to call this country a democracy without living in one.

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Just one more notch in the "Chas is intolerant of people different from him" belt.

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PostPosted: Sat Sep 14, 2013 3:58 pm 
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Gay people are icky and I only am ok with a minority wanting their viewpoint accepted by all if I agree with them. Otherwise, fuck them.


Did I sum it up well for ya there skippy?


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Chas got a bit to what I was saying although I am not in step with him lol. People are not actively suing to stop a gay parade but every other direction I look they are happy to try to stop formally normal things i.e. spring egg hunts, holiday vacation and so on. Like I said all is good but it is fashionable to make fun or besmirch old time stuff but not LGBT stuff.

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"I don't like it/I'm offended by it." is pretty much the worst reasoning ever concocted for outlawing something.


I am not saying that. I have no problem with what people do as long as they do not try and tell me how I should feel about it.


Totally fair. Deal.

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Just one more notch in the "Chas is intolerant of people different from him" belt.


How you get that?I firmly believe everyone should have and equal voice. If the majority votes to outlaw mayo on baloney sandwiches but a few people want it,should they be allowed to sue to do it?
You guys do know what the definition of Democracy and majority are right?

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You guys do know what the definition of Democracy and majority are right?

:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: Ok....please tell me you're just trolling when you of all people type that. :lol: :lol:


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Unless I'm missing something, gays aren't putting up statues of dick sucking on public squares. Christians certainly are putting up mangers on public lands. See the difference?

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Unless I'm missing something, gays aren't putting up statues of dick sucking on public squares. Christians certainly are putting up mangers on public lands. See the difference?

No. Because gay people are icky and Christians are awesome!


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Unless I'm missing something, gays aren't putting up statues of dick sucking on public squares. Christians certainly are putting up mangers on public lands. See the difference?


Yes you are exactly right. But you unless I missed it are an atheist so why does it bother some of those to let a large amount of people have that manger? Idk it seems weird to me the whole logic. I give a shit if the town square has a manger or menorah or whatever. But some have to file suit over that. Yet some are against gay things and the city granting a gay parade permit is fine?

The real issue is that government being involved in social issues is a huge pain in the ass.

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"I don't like it/I'm offended by it." is pretty much the worst reasoning ever concocted for outlawing something.


I am not saying that. I have no problem with what people do as long as they do not try and tell me how I should feel about it. It is one of my major problems with Islam and those that follow it.
So if that is the worst reason for that then why do we have laws against bestiality or necrophilia?

Okay Terry Peep, If I do not want to deal with it stay in my house. Why should the majority have to do that for the sake of a minority. They do not want to be treated equal in that respect they wan the majority to bend to their will.
Once again you want to call this country a democracy without living in one.


I'm saying, chaswick, that if seeing something that you disagree with makes you uncomfortable, you probably should do what you can to avoid it rather than expecting others to conform to your wishes.

Do you see yet how mind-numbingly stupid your fish analogy was?

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I like to fish :lol:


WELL DON'T MAKE CHAS FISH!!!

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What I am trying to say is that a minority should not hold the majority hostage and do what they wish.

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What minority is doing that?

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What I am trying to say is that a minority should not hold the majority hostage and do what they wish.

Which goes against everything you stand for politically. God I hope you're just trolling or you REALLY don't get how fucked up your world view is.


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What I am trying to say is that a minority should not hold the majority hostage and do what they wish.

Which goes against everything you stand for politically. God I hope you're just trolling or you REALLY don't get how fucked up your world view is.


Explain that to me seriously

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