I think so, earlier the better, for all parties involved.

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favrefan said:"Chris Coghlan isn't gonna pay your rent, Jimmy."

The hanging folds of loose skin should be your first clue.

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We all have private ails. The troublemakers are they who need public cures for their private ails.- Eric Hoffer

that's not far off from the transformation some of these women undergo. as an example from the web:

this could be an interesting thread

This. I'm not even looking for any strange and this chick hangs out at a place I hang out at. Talked to her a few times, mostly while she's waiting for her latest blind date to show up. Ended up being at the bar on a night she apparently didn't have any prospects lined up and so she started putting the full-court press on me to go home with her. She's scrolling through pics on her phone and she stops on a picture of a woman 3x's her size and says "that's what I looked like before" and then explains about the life-changing event gastric bypass surgery was for her. She had been severely obese since childhood. Even if I didn't already have good reasons not to go home with her, it would have been challenging to go home with her after seeing her before pic.

They arent fat at that moment. Maybe it gives pause to date long term but for a little action on the side, it isnt relevant.

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is that what the concern is ? that they'd revert back to their fat state ?

i was thinking it was because it might have negative effects on important body parts

Do you think every woman who had gastric bypass has a gigantic drooping vagina? I suppose it's possible but not likely. Your stomach, arms, legs etc get fat. I dont see a lot of fat vaginas.

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I find the beauty in all people

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O judgment! Thou art fled to brutish beasts,
And men have lost their reason.

"Like a catfish on stinkbait"

I'm a gynecologist.

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I never have been licensed by the state and the clients do get bored easily.

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Just wait for good dolphin to finally post a picture of himself here.

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Comes in handy sometimes.

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"All crowds boycotting football games shouldn't care who sings or takes a knee because they aren't watching." - Nas

So you're bagging on chicks who were overweight and went out an did something about it because at one time they were fat? Care to post a selfie of what I'm sure is your incredible physique and have Spaulding judge it?

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Proud member of the white guy grievance committee

It aint the six minutes. Its what happens in those six minutes.

did something like pay for surgery ?

I bet Hussra is 130 pounds soaking wet. It enables him to sneak through the tight cracks and crevasses of The Internet.

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Spaulding used to be fat? Had no intention of going home with the girl even prior to seeing the before pic. I didn't not go home with her because of the pic. Said it'd be challenging to go home with her that night having seen the before pic at that particular moment, like climbing mt kilimanjaro, or reading a sinicalypse new thread post in its entirety.

Your GF is not around anymore I take it?

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diet/exercise/discipline is so overrated. i reckon it's incumbent on any would-be/conquistador who efforts procreation with the lady to do some recon on it, cuz like panther intimated (or so i believe) there's some psychological issues going on with people who allow themselves to balloon to the point of gastric bypass, which in and of itself speaks to the person's constitution as they're looking for the shortcut as opposed to the effort.

so yeah while i'm not calling for the "JUDE" style star to identify them, let alone a scarlet letter or something..... still, i think any guy who eventually notices the spare flesh should have warning sirens go off and thusly oughta get the fuck out of dodge.

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Post-op transsexuals- duty to disclose?

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Anybody here seen my old friend Bobby?
Can you tell me where he's gone?
I thought I saw him walkin' up to The Hill
With Elon, Tulsi, and Don

I'm going to say yes, which I know isn't cool with the SJWs, but I don't care.

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What is that hilarious thing popping out of her gigantic vagina?

Those pants are not serving her well.

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