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children beatings
slap on the rear does no harm 63%  63%  [ 15 ]
Beat them until they "get it" 13%  13%  [ 3 ]
Drug them up 0%  0%  [ 0 ]
Never,ever touch a child. 25%  25%  [ 6 ]
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PostPosted: Thu Sep 18, 2014 7:28 am 
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My sister uses the "I will take the IPad away for ______"....and then she takes it away, then they bug the crap out of her and she gives it back.

Very effective!


I don't have kids yet (so I'm not qualified to discuss), but from my observations, follow through is one of the biggest assets parents lack. No consequences equals no results.


Even if you really don't want to you have to follow through. They won't believe you are serious if you don't.

No one is allowed to watch TV or play with a tablet during the school week in my house. They aren't allowed to do it on the weekend until all work is done. I've had this rule since they were in daycare and I've stuck to it so no one tries to challenge me about it.

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Sometimes I punch my daughter in the morning to wake her up. Keeps her on her toes.


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Sometimes I punch my daughter in the morning to wake her up. Keeps her on her toes.


Reminds me of the time my dad shot my feet for moving around too much in the batter's box. I didn't move after that!

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My kids beat me up from time to time.

I deserve it, though. I'm kind of a jagoff.

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leashyourkids wrote:
rogers park bryan wrote:
Sometimes I punch my daughter in the morning to wake her up. Keeps her on her toes.


Reminds me of the time my dad shot my feet for moving around too much in the batter's box. I didn't move after that!



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When my son was around 3 or 4,I beat him in Street Fighter on his Nintendo. I started to laugh.
He got up,closed his bedroom door and said "You are not leaving yet."

It reminded me of this:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H_lijLYuw-o

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leashyourkids wrote:
bigfan wrote:
My sister uses the "I will take the IPad away for ______"....and then she takes it away, then they bug the crap out of her and she gives it back.

Very effective!


I don't have kids yet (so I'm not qualified to discuss), but from my observations, follow through is one of the biggest assets parents lack. No consequences equals no results.


Even if you really don't want to you have to follow through. They won't believe you are serious if you don't.

No one is allowed to watch TV or play with a tablet during the school week in my house. They aren't allowed to do it on the weekend until all work is done. I've had this rule since they were in daycare and I've stuck to it so no one tries to challenge me about it.

More like Nasi.

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No TV during the week? Nas is the greatest monster of our generation :lol: :lol:

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i have swatted all of mine on the rear end at times.

Never used any switches or spoons or anything like that, and never left any marks or bruises, etc.

I do not think swatting on the rear equals child abuse like it seems many today believe. But there is definitely a line that should not be crossed.

I agree with Ralphus.

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i have swatted all of mine on the rear end at times.

Never used any switches or spoons or anything like that, and never left any marks or bruises, etc.

I do not think swatting on the rear equals child abuse like it seems many today believe. But there is definitely a line that should not be crossed.



That is the part I do not get with some especially Bernsie. Even if you vehemently disagree with light spanking and its results why lump everyone together as sensationalist abusers?


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My kids beat me up from time to time.

I deserve it, though. I'm kind of a jagoff.
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I'm on pins and needles, waiting to hear 312's answer to this question. I'm guessing he has hit kids, whether they're his own or not.

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I have and do spank but then again, I let my kids play football. Better for them to have been raised by wolves. Blame God for that roll of the dice.

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I have and do spank but then again, I let my kids play football.


I was thinking about this yesterday. Beating your kid's ass black and blue is probably more responsible than letting them play football.

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I have and do spank but then again, I let my kids play football.


I was thinking about this yesterday. Beating your kid's ass black and blue is probably more responsible than letting them play football.

You do know there are more concussions in the wonderful sport of soccer than occur on the football field.

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I got my ass beat on a regular basis when I was a kid.

It never did anything for me but make me afraid, and later, angry. It also taught me to conceal my thoughts, feelings and behavior from my elders.

I'll never spank either of my boys.

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My dad & I had an enlightening conversation when I was maybe 8-9 years old (and had just gotten ratted out by my sister for stealing a pack of football cards). He mentioned that when he was my age he did something similar, got caught & his (Alabama raised, go figure :wink: ) dad whipped his ass, leading to a fall that knocked out two teeth.

He explained how he didn't want to go that route, but that I was finally getting big enough to take one...and who knew what the consequences could/would be.

That fear stuck with me, until the living off campus with no cash hunger became a bit much :lol:

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I've never had an issue with parents who spank their kids. Obviously beating them is not right. I can't recall ever hitting my kids, but I probably did a time or two. I can distinctly recall getting in their faces with them pinned up against the wall for repeatedly failing to listen to me. I had to put the fear of God into them at least once, so they knew who was in charge. Maybe that's wrong. However, I see so many parents with children who just ignore them at every command. You see this misbehavior in public places, and the kids clearly do not respect the parents. Part of it is a safety issue, such as telling your kids to be home at a certain time or looking both ways when crossing the street. Oh well, no easy answers.

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My kids beat me up from time to time.

I deserve it, though. I'm kind of a jagoff.
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Tall Midget wrote:
It also taught me to conceal my thoughts, feelings and behavior from my elders..


In reality, an incredibly important lesson and one that will be even more important for your kids to learn.

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good dolphin wrote:
Tall Midget wrote:
It also taught me to conceal my thoughts, feelings and behavior from my elders..


In reality, an incredibly important lesson and one that will be even more important for your kids to learn.


:lol: :lol: :lol:

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