i just noticed my neighbor is on the sex offender list.

i looked up state laws, and apparently he is classified as 'forcing a sexual act onto a child', which means 12 years old or younger.

this was back in 1998 (he would have been 29) and of course i had no idea until i saw his face on the map. he has been over a few times, great guy, even worked on an engine together. he doesnt drink or smoke but it might be because of his probation now i think of it.

now i would have known what to do if say it was a 16 year old he played with.... but '12 and younger'? the guy was 29... what would you guys do at this point? the law doesnt really provide room for forgiveness (i think hes on an ankle bracelet after 16 years) and he will never come off the online lists... so society has given up on him. i dont really care one way or the other, part of me says fuck this creep but the other part says the real story might not be so bad. i do know the law dramatically over reaches on many sexual cases. i had a friend around 22 who ate a 17 year old out, but she begged him to. i know she did because she was tryin to get with me at the same time. she knew what she was doing, everyone was cool with everyone. but her parents found out about him (they knew about me), and they freaked out because they knew his parents or some shit. they called the cops and he went on the sex offender list for life.

his just says 'sexual assult of a minor' which meant like 16-17. my neighbors is at most 12 and odds are younger which is scary

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What would I do?

gotta go with the big lebowski and say "eight year olds dude, eight year olds" and go on with my life.

What is there really to "do" ??? The dude got burned going after a kid, and you live next door to him. Remember this ike: what do you about your other neighbors' sex lives? They could be into scat and snuff for all you know.They could be bigger pedophiles and just never got caught. I never ask ppl about Shit like that cuz I don't wanna know... Its like opening pandora's box

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I know a guy who got pinched on a bullshit charge (later recanted) by a nasty bitch of a neighbor that didn't like him for a barking dog and thought the best way to get rid of him and his dog was to put him in jail saying she caught him with her daughter. The daughter always denied anything happened. After spending a few months in jail the woman admitted she made up the charge.
He is still listed on the registry.

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Holy shit darko, I believe stuff like that is why god (through his chosen vessel tupac) invented the line "DIE SLOW MOTHETFUCKER MY FO-FO WILL MAKE SURE ALL YOUR KIDS AINT GROW!!!!"



OK then..... Bitches, amirite?

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Was she prosecuted?

I don't know. I'll ask next time I see the guy.

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I thought he wasn't allowed back after the sock incident ...

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essentially what i am asking is should i trust the legal system and avoid this dude at all costs while at the same time keep a close eye on his movements, or should i accept the fact that this was a long time ago and he has been good to me so i have no reason to be bad to him?

it wouldnt be so tough to think about if i knew what actually happened... but there isnt any way to find out so i just dont know what the right actions are...

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ok first of all.... what the fuck is going on with your avatar dude? you're ike motherfucking south, get'cha avatar game up son!

second of all.... dude, how about you dont sweat the guy until he gives you a tangible reason to do so? if you notice him acting sketchy and casing your shit out and whantot then you start going on high alert.... but even with pederast shit like you're saying both the legal system and society at large passed judgment on him and here he is living next door to you all legit. i mean, yeah i know child rape is something that wasn't too big of a deal until dan bernstein woke the world up in light of the penn state shower scandal, but still man i think going out of your head sweating dude is only gonna make you paranoid and potentially seeing shit that doesnt exist because you're thinking THE DUDE IS A CHILD MOLESTER.... THERE HAS TO BE SOMETHING THERE!

you know how he was just your neighbor up until you found this shit out? that's how you should judge him now. obviously i'm not gonna install a pool in my back around and invite my nephews and nieces over to swim while he's got a recliner set up by the 2nd story window next door and a lot of towels by his chair for some reason... but that's the extent of how far i'd take this shit. maybe be a little uptight when you've got kids over, but otherwise dude i mean wtf he is gonna do to you?

i mean wouldnt you be more freaked out if you found out out you're living next door to a 3x convicted serial homo rapist who has a thing for stoners? that'd be some watch your back shit.... but short of having kids over, man, why are you gonna sweat him on anything other than how he's acting around you in the here and now?

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this is at my familys summer resort. we rent out 4 cabins all summer long, there is roughly 50 kids that show up over the course of the summer

my avatar is lucile ball that looks like the arnold ice guy

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