good dolphin wrote:
wdelaney72 wrote:
IMO a parent's job is to do everything in their power to make their children self-sufficient productive members of society. My youngest is 12 yrs old and worst case, this gives me 10 more years.
Once that is done, I will change my profession and employment, but not retire. I will work to survive as opposed to working to provide. Working to provide puts me at 53. Working to survive is likely 65-70.
I understand that mindset. I don't agree with it.
Sure I want my kids to be self sufficient. I also think it would be cool to take them on a vacation, maybe with their kids, when I'm an old fart.
The future Mrs kind of said the same thing.
There's somewhere in the middle. I will still work and need to make money, but I simply want to downsize my home and lose the commute. I'm certainly not delusional that life will still cost money, but right now I get the pleasure of bankrolling 2 kids and an ex-wife. I intentionally live in an area with higher taxes and a more expensive house than we'll need. Once my youngest is on his own, my obligations will reduce quite a bit and I should be able to find a happy medium.
Before hitting the corporate world I was a HS teacher. Kids are a PITA but honestly it's something I would enjoy doing for the final stretch of my work life.
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This Ends in Antioch wrote:
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1. block or enclose with a wall of bricks
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