Wait until you come back; if she is a decent person, let her enjoy New York. Just don't give her any mixed signals that you intend for the relationship to become more serious. Wait a few days until after the trip so the relationship ends on somewhat of a positive note.

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Sherman remarked, "Well, Grant, we've had the devil's own day, haven't we?" Grant looked up. "Yes," he replied, followed by a puff. "Yes. Lick 'em tomorrow, though."

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O judgment! Thou art fled to brutish beasts,
And men have lost their reason.

/agreed


Sounds like you both are getting something out of this. Let her enjoy the NY and enjoy it with her.

Make sure you wear a sport coat on the plane

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I do agree that this place is a great resource for dealing with young poon (or any poon for that matter).

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O judgment! Thou art fled to brutish beasts,
And men have lost their reason.

You're overthinking this.
Go on the trip, have fun, figure it how to dump her when you get back.

In the meantime, don't make any big, extravagant plans with her after the NY trip.

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Good people drink good beer - Hunter S. Thompson

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Waiting for the time when I can finally say
That this has all been wonderful, but now I'm on my way

Might I suggest that a man matching this description should perhaps refrain from breaking up with just about any woman cwho is charitable enough to date him?

*No offense intended regarding your looks: I myself am a hideous specimen whose repugnance has only been magnified by my recent unfortunate encounter with a chainsaw.

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TM, this is the second reference to a chainsaw accident. Is this legit or did I miss a board meme in my absence?

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Glad to see that you're posting again, Hank!

Unfortunately, the chainsaw references aren't a meme. A relative almost killed me with one a couple months back, and I had to be rushed to the hospital for 7+ hours of emergency surgery. I'm still recovering and will never be the same, even when I've completed my physical therapy--probably in about a year or so.

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What the fuck did you do to this guy to get him to try killing you with a chainsaw?

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Fare you well, fare you well
I love you more than words can tell
Listen to the river sing sweet songs
To rock my soul

It was an accident.

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He was a Hillary Man.

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You do not talk to me like that! I work too hard to deal with this stuff! I work too hard! I'm an important member of the CSFMB! I drive a Dodge Stratus!

Holy cow... best of luck. I hope that relative isnt invited back for thanksgiving.

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Thanks Hank. We're close with the person who did it, so we see him pretty frequently.

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I know I said it before but I am sorry to hear this. I could not imagine dealing with a year of therapy and recovery. Where did you get cut? Are you retired?

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Be well

GO BEARS!!!

Us Hillary men wouldn't do something like that to a fellow traveler & BBQ master.

--and I don't know why but when I first saw this chainsaw reference, I thought you were kidding TM. I sincerely hope you're back to working on the heirlooms.

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There are only two examples of infinity: The universe and human stupidity and I'm not sure about the universe.

Goddamn.

Sorry to hear that TM.

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Thanks Nas. I got cut on both arms and one leg. I had/have major arterial, nerve, and tendon damage. I am in my 40s and still considered relatively "young" in my field.

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Thanks Reader. I'm a lot better than I was a few weeks ago, but the healing process will take a lot of time.

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Thanks Peeps. I appreciate it.

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Sorry about your injuries, TM. That's horrible.

Yeah, that sucks, man. You sound like a tough motherfucker.

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Fare you well, fare you well
I love you more than words can tell
Listen to the river sing sweet songs
To rock my soul

I'm not sure how tough I am--all I did was bleed a lot. We'll see how I get through the physical therapy. That's going to be the hard part.

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Thanks Matt.

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I blame Obama for taking away TM's buddy's gun.

Yikes! Sorry to hear this. That sounds awful.

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Good people drink good beer - Hunter S. Thompson

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Waiting for the time when I can finally say
That this has all been wonderful, but now I'm on my way

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Good lord, TM. Glad you survived that. You really deserve some Trillium.

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