ASSHOLE

Been dating this girl since last September, she lives in another state.

She's crazy pretty, great fun to be around, smaht and all that; but she's young, too young for me and the long-distance thing.

We're going to new york next weekend. At least we're supposed to. Both airfares (southwest, so no change fees), hotel, concert and broadway shows and tourist-pass attraction things all bought and pre-paid for (about $3K total). She's very excited to go to new york city, she's never been. I've been to new york many a time, great place.

Anyhow, I don't see this whole thing working out. And plan on conveying that to her sooner than later.

Should I still go to nyc with her next weekend? if we go to nyc together and then a few weeks later that's it, seems like a shit thing for her. gnomesayin. i could tell her ahead of time and she could go to new york with a friend or something instead.