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I think the overall experience at a Catholic school is much better than the overall experience at a public school.
Why?


I would like to know this as well. More than anything, I almost thing an education at any private religious institution, prior to college, would actually be more sheltered and repressive.


Class sizes/schools are usually smaller which I think leads to a better sense of community. I feel like teachers and the system are more honest and invested in your child. From my experience and what I see they have more rules, don't have the discipline problems, and tend to have higher rates of parental involvement. More is expected of students and the students are held more accountable for work and actions. Uniforms make everybody a little more equal.

They tend to lack funding and free services if your child has needs. They don't always have the money for technology or as many extra curricular activities.

I don't know that I've ever felt sheltered or repressed but those aren't necessarily bad things til your 12 or so. It might help you to learn right from wrong and make good decisions by the time you start to be faced with difficult ones. I don't think the lack of religious discussion and celebration in a public school is a good thing.


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Almost without exception, the parents are engaged in their child's learning. The teachers aren't burdened with kids who get no parent support.

Yeah, that tends to happen when they're all putting down thousands of dollars a year on their kids.

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 Post subject: Re: Bigotry
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Those terrible Downers Grove public schools.


They aren't as great as you'd think. There is lots wrong with the way things are going. I think there are 4 seats going to be open on the school board and hoping some good people get voted in to right the ship.


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 Post subject: Re: Bigotry
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How many times do you want me to answer this?? For each family and situation the answer is different. My daughter is approaching high school. Will she go to public or catholic? I'm not sure yet.
So why do you keep citing the statistics that you are about college placement and other things?

If what you say is true, and life works out much better for Catholic school graduates, then how can family and situation matter?

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I have already read those studies previously.
So you choose to ignore them when you say things like "no creditable evidence on your side of the argument" when there are three studies like that?

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 Post subject: Re: Bigotry
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-Class sizes were between 25-50% smaller depending on the year. D300 tended to have class sizes above 30. Our children generally attend class with 15-25 kids in a class.
-The private schools make the children and parents sign a code of conduct. In addition, it is strictly enforced.
-Almost without exception, the parents are engaged in their child's learning. The teachers aren't burdened with kids who get no parent support.
-The students are held to a high academic standard with no social promotion.
-They use more traditional teaching techniques like phonics and times tables vs whole word learning and silly ways to multiply numbers.
-The teachers have a deeper involvement and level of caring because the parents, students, and teachers all attend the same church and do many social activities outside the classroom. For instance, every teacher in elementary school would meet with us at our house before the school year began to learn and meet the entire family.
-There is very little bureaucracy or administration. Instead of a school with a thousand kids, you are dealing with 100 (200 for the entire high school). You know the Principal, and he/she knows you and your kids.
-The reviews from parents and kids that had attended those schools were a strong validating factor of the quality of education. Looking back, my children received and are still still receiving a very high quality education. Their standardized test scores show that. I see a vast different between my kids and their cousins. The impact is cumulative.
-The high school has a 100% placement rate into college.


I think I said what you said. :lol: I agree with all this.


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I know what the studies say because I have researched the issue. Catholic students perform MUCH better on average. very simple. But when you parse out, income, race, etc. the difference becomes unmeasurable, at least according to those studies. I am fine with that.

The onus of proof was on you once you claimed I was doing a disservice to my children. I am already familiar with the literature which is why I suggested you cite some evidence.

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Also Dennis prefers teachers paid less than Union equivalents.


My preference is for teachers who teach better than their union equivalents. And on that point, I am happy to report that my preference has been universally fulfilled.

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 Post subject: Re: Bigotry
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All of the people that I know that went to Catholic high school are sort of nuts about it long after graduation. They treat it almost like a college alumni. In NWI, there is certainly a strange cult of worship around Andrean HS.

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You could have some of the best teachers at a school but if the class is a mess it doesn't matter. Your kid won't learn much.


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I know what the studies say because I have researched the issue. Catholic students perform MUCH better on average. very simple. But when you parse out, income, race, etc. the difference becomes unmeasurable, at least according to those studies. I am fine with that.
With you saying that, I am going to assume you don't believe for the average student there is a difference between a public and private education.

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The onus of proof was on you once you claimed I was doing a disservice to my children. I am already familiar with the literature which is why I suggested you cite some evidence.
I believe I did explain myself. I hope you find more value in a Catholic education than I would. Personally, I'll send my kid to public school and bank the tuition costs and give that to them for college if they are somehow able to overcome the statistics and get there with a public school education.

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I went to private school my first three years of school and probably learned more through 1st grade than I did through all of 2nd grade. Private schools are better. But don't act like you've slid your glasses down your nose, crunched the numbers, and arrived at the conclusion that having children of fuckup parents packed 30 to a room is Actually Worse. You just have lots of money to burn that most people don't.

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 Post subject: Re: Bigotry
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You could have some of the best teachers at a school but if the class is a mess it doesn't matter. Your kid won't learn much.
I know a lot about your school district and you are being paranoid if you think classes are a "mess" there. The worst part about at least one of the schools is they don't have enough lockers and people have to share.

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 Post subject: Re: Bigotry
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Almost without exception, the parents are engaged in their child's learning. The teachers aren't burdened with kids who get no parent support.

Yeah, that tends to happen when they're all putting down thousands of dollars a year on their kids.


Indeed. And I suspect many public school teachers would tell you that the lack of parental support in terms of discipline or with homework, etc is a big reason why public school teaching is a very difficult job.

When we first evaluated Westminster Christian at the open house, I talked to several of the parents who were already sending their kids to the school. But the one who stuck out was a mom who is a public school teacher. She said she hated the administration and general BS and would never send her kid to her own school. I was kind of shocked by her strident views against her own public school.

I knew D54 and D211 well as my wife and I both went through those public school systems. Had we remained in Schaumburg I would have been comfortable sending my kids to those same schools. When we moved out to West Dundee, we pledged to not send our kids to (unified) D300 school. It's merely personal preference.....

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 Post subject: Re: Bigotry
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The public school my kids could attend is the best (by test scores) in Oak Park, which is to say one of the best in the area. Two thirds of the kids at my catholic school come from Chicago, Maywood(!), Melrose Park, etc.

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Also Dennis prefers teachers paid less than Union equivalents.


My preference is for teachers who teach better than their union equivalents. And on that point, I am happy to report that my preference has been universally fulfilled.


Or, like the kids at the school, the deck is stacked in their favor to succeed. As always the biggest predictor of student success is parent income and parent education level, not because some teacher eats at your house or a code of conduct that allows them to kick all the bad kids out. Frankly your idea of "deeper involvement and level of caring" is pretty insulting.


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*song plays under montage of denisdman cracking reference books, punching in figures on an adding machine, measuring children's skull sizes with calipers*



I've GOT it! I'll pay a shit ton of money for something people usually get for free!

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I know a lot about your school district and you are being paranoid if you think classes are a "mess" there. The worst part about at least one of the schools is they don't have enough lockers and people have to share.


Please, tell me more about my life!

By my standards they are a mess. Parental involvement, extra funding, and extra help are a large reason why it looks like the schools perform well. They fudge grades quite a bit, imo, and teach for those damn tests.


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Parental involvement, extra funding, and extra help are a large reason why it looks like the schools perform well.
What does that mean?

Those are good things!

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The PhD principal at our public elementary school reneged on her commitment to allow our girl to have half-day kindergarten when she realized it would cost her some dough from the state. that's when I told her to fuck off and we went to catholic schools. Same person got shitcanned a couple years later after fudging the state test scores! :lol:

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Also Dennis prefers teachers paid less than Union equivalents.


My preference is for teachers who teach better than their union equivalents. And on that point, I am happy to report that my preference has been universally fulfilled.


Or, like the kids at the school, the deck is stacked in their favor to succeed. As always the biggest predictor of student success is parent income and parent education level, not because some teacher eats at your house or a code of conduct that allows them to kick all the bad kids out. Frankly your idea of "deeper involvement and level of caring" is pretty insulting.


Fuck like I care if it's insulting to you. I'd wear that as a badge of honor quite frankly. I've taken enough backhanded shit over the years from you and others over my opinions. I answer the damn questions and topics on these boards honestly. You put words in my mouth, like "I want lower paid teachers". I want teachers that can teach effectively for all children.

Been through the public schools. I know what those are like. I hear from my neighbors what D300 is like. My kids go to private school, so I know what those are like. I gave my opinion to the questions raised here.

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Where do your kids go?

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The crazy thing is private school parents subsidize the public schools and then people get pissed at us! The logic! :lol:

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Parental involvement, extra funding, and extra help are a large reason why it looks like the schools perform well.
What does that mean?

Those are good things!


It's not the school doing it. Parents have to overcome quite a bit. Extra funding comes from the parents in the form of donations or PTA, extra help is half the class being at a tutor or using some other resource. The teachers are passing kids thru and teaching to those tests. It looks good on paper but the kids aren't really being taught, educated, or able to think.


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Also Dennis prefers teachers paid less than Union equivalents.


My preference is for teachers who teach better than their union equivalents. And on that point, I am happy to report that my preference has been universally fulfilled.


Or, like the kids at the school, the deck is stacked in their favor to succeed. As always the biggest predictor of student success is parent income and parent education level, not because some teacher eats at your house or a code of conduct that allows them to kick all the bad kids out. Frankly your idea of "deeper involvement and level of caring" is pretty insulting.


Fuck like I care if it's insulting to you. I'd wear that as a badge of honor quite frankly. I've taken enough backhanded shit over the years from you and others over my opinions. I answer the damn questions and topics on these boards honestly. You put words in my mouth, like "I want lower paid teachers". I want teachers that can teach effectively for all children.

Been through the public schools. I know what those are like. I hear from my neighbors what D300 is like. My kids go to private school, so I know what those are like. I gave my opinion to the questions raised here.


I see a pretty good correlation between entitled travel sports parents and entitled Catholic school parents. That backhanded enough for you?


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Spaulding wrote:
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Parental involvement, extra funding, and extra help are a large reason why it looks like the schools perform well.
What does that mean?

Those are good things!


It's not the school doing it. Parents have to overcome quite a bit. Extra funding comes from the parents in the form of donations or PTA, extra help is half the class being at a tutor or using some other resource. The teachers are passing kids thru and teaching to those tests. It looks good on paper but the kids aren't really being taught, educated, or able to think.
That happens at all the good schools though. The top rated public schools all can thank that kind of stuff too.

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Or, like the kids at the school, the deck is stacked in their favor to succeed. As always the biggest predictor of student success is parent income and parent education level, not because some teacher eats at your house or a code of conduct that allows them to kick all the bad kids out. Frankly your idea of "deeper involvement and level of caring" is pretty insulting.


I think there is something to that. Teachers at public schools are tied to administrative rules. They can't do and say certain things. They are concerned about state test scores. They way they are teaching at our school is ridiculous and they know it but they can't do anything about it.


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I see a pretty good correlation between entitled travel sports parents and entitled Catholic school parents. That backhanded enough for you?


If it makes you feel better, sure. My kids aren't Catholic though and have never been to a Catholic school.

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I am catholic and I refuse to let our kids ever play travel sports. :lol:

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That happens at all the good schools though. The top rated public schools all can thank that kind of stuff too.


I don't know who is thanking what or why? I have no idea what you are trying to say or what your point is.


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