FavreFan wrote:
I don't mean this to be an asshole although it will surely sound like that, but how do you know the challenges that your kids can handle and cannot? When I was in jr high and high school my parents certainly had no idea even though they were very involved. I think you are putting your kids at a disadvantage by now exposing them to every different type of person you can. That's the problem with our country right now in a nutshell. Everybody wants to live in an echo chamber where them and their loved ones will never be challenged to think differently than they otherwise would have.
Because I see the disruption in their learning and their level of frustration or anxiety when they come home. Think of working with somebody you can't stand for years about for about 5 or so hours every week day. Then picture a 8-9 year old trying to manage that. There is behavior that you don't accept from others. It's not a matter of thinking or being different. There is one kid that I'd bet 5 minutes of every hour is spent sorting out, fixing, or discussing some disruption caused by him. He takes people's stuff, throws things, interrupts, generally tries to piss people off. About once every 2 weeks to once a month he either hurts somebody or damages something.