How do you tell someone that you can't be in their wedding at the last min? My reason for needing to drop out is great but I haven't shared it with anyone and don't feel like sharing it. Should I explain why or just apologize and say I'll explain later?

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Be well

GO BEARS!!!

How close to the wedding? Honestly, I would say you need to explain why...otherwise it may wind up being far more difficult later...

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How close are you to the people getting married?

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This.

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You need to be direct and explain your reason.

The only answer.

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"He is a loathsome, offensive brute
--yet I can't look away."

Unless you are the groom or someone died what good excuse is there to bail at the last minute?

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"I honestly don't see a good bet on the board here."

Tell him to call off the wedding cause you banged the bride this morning

Then say, just kidding, but seriously, I cant be in it because ___________

He'll be so relieved she isnt cheating, he'll be cool with you no showing

HIS REASONS ARE PRIVATE AND SHALL REMAIN SO

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Proud member of the white guy grievance committee

It aint the six minutes. Its what happens in those six minutes.

Even if it was some variation of this you still show up.

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"I honestly don't see a good bet on the board here."

5 weeks away. They'll understand why whenever I share it.

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Be well

GO BEARS!!!

Plenty of time....just do it soon. Good luck.

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Hawaii (fuck) You

Just say you're related to Krazy Ivan.

The groom will understand.

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#TRUTH

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ANOTHER KID!!???!

Just explain that something came up, and it's serious enough that you have to miss the wedding. Send a nice gift.

Life gets in the way sometimes.

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Good people drink good beer - Hunter S. Thompson

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Waiting for the time when I can finally say
That this has all been wonderful, but now I'm on my way

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Not possible anymore.

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Be well

GO BEARS!!!

You don't owe anybody an explanation. I will go ahead and assume it's a family situation. Family first.

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Good people drink good beer - Hunter S. Thompson

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Waiting for the time when I can finally say
That this has all been wonderful, but now I'm on my way

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Good people drink good beer - Hunter S. Thompson

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Waiting for the time when I can finally say
That this has all been wonderful, but now I'm on my way

Only when insulting someone.

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Tell them you have a meeting scheduled with Bomani Jones. Everyone knows that Bomani Jones is an excuse for anything.

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"All crowds boycotting football games shouldn't care who sings or takes a knee because they aren't watching." - Nas

In light of the limited available information for us to make an informed response, I'll second the 'This'.

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Power is always in the hands of the masses of men. What oppresses the masses is their own ignorance, their own short-sighted selfishness.
- Henry George

A fairytale love story come to life here at SummerSlam and Madison Square Garden!!!

This night will be remembered forever by these two individuals, and by our millions of viewers around the world!!!

The couple of the year!!!

if it's a white person's wedding, just send another black guy in your place. they'll never know the diff.

Create a mult, and send spmack a PM.

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Have a buddy bring a gift in your name and say you were there.

This was a plot on King of Queens.

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favrefan said:"Chris Coghlan isn't gonna pay your rent, Jimmy."

Whatever you do, don't do this.

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It's a dick move unless the circumstances are life or death. They aren't going to be happy with you, no matter how much you try to spin it.