Nas wrote:
Don Tiny wrote:
Nas wrote:
Outside of the NBA community, I haven't seen a lot of Kobe stuff since Tuesday. We spend a SIGNIFICANT portion our lives debating the careers and lives of complete strangers, but mourning them is too much? What is acceptable mourning?
I feel bad for his family as well as the families of the others, but I don't have the slightest urge to make sure as many people as possible in the world know that I feel bad because I'm not mentally ill nor so fragile that I care whether someone thinks I've done enough to mourn. Christ, we lampoon forced days of mourning in North Korea but this sideshow of who can publicly emote the most somehow makes perfect sense?
The relatively few who really feel bad for good reason is one thing.
In most cases though, it's not actually mourning, it's acting hyperbolically overwrought and then being an attention whore about it.How do you know for certain most people are being attention whores? This sounds like you and a few others have decided to label people because you all weren't impacted by his death in a similar way. I find that take odd by anyone who has posted on this board for years. WE have literally spent years of our lives posting about the careers and lives of players, management, radio hosts and politicians. We don't know 99% of these people and we don't get paid to discuss them. We're the last people who should question the mental fitness of anyone because they've spent a few days mourning an athlete and his child.
I can ask the same pointless question to you - how do you know for certain they aren't?
I missed where Instagram and Twitter and whatever the hell else is out there suddenly became, by and large, a bastion of real thoughts and emotion (a) of consequence and (b) of pure heart and intention.
And the 'most people' stretches far, far, far outside the confines of our private little universe here where we have indeed spoken about MANY people MANY times, so I have no idea why you would even tacitly present this board as anything to use as a measuring stick.
I can't read people's minds ... I just know BS when I smell it. For every Nas out there, it sure seems like there are 100 Ice Girls, maybe more.