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SpiralStairs

Post subject: Re: Generational Trauma

Posted: Wed Jan 26, 2022 10:23 pm

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NWsider4-3-3 wrote:

SpiralStairs wrote:

Trauma breeds trauma.

the japanese forced the koreans to abandon their language and culture for a generation, did unspeakable horrors to them and to the chinese/filipinos and it seems as though the descendants have done just fine - especially in the usa/canada/australia.

american trauma is...? a couple refuse to compromise or the male is corrupted by porn and the woman sleeps with the first man who compliments her shoes? is that non-violent trauma?

Reading is a skill

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Nardi

Post subject: Re: Generational Trauma

Posted: Wed Jan 26, 2022 10:53 pm

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SpiralStairs wrote:

NWsider4-3-3 wrote:

SpiralStairs wrote:

Trauma breeds trauma.

Reading is a skill

Resiliency isn't a skill. It's in the DNA.

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Rod

Post subject: Re: Generational Trauma

Posted: Wed Jan 26, 2022 11:27 pm

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This Ends in Antioch wrote:

SpiralStairs wrote:

This Ends in Antioch wrote:

SpiralStairs wrote:

Does anyone believe this stuff? We're supposed to believe that if you grew up in a house and were abused by your parent or caregiver and a bunch of murders and stuff happened in your neighborhood, that that has an effect on your life and your relationships with people going forward.

Is this what people really believe?

I thought generational trauma was more about that stuff happening to a parent or grandparent or great-grandparent and ultimately impacting you.

You mean to tell me that if my grand-parents and parents were abused by their parents or caregivers and a bunch of murders and stuff happened in their neighborhoods that it would have an effect on their lives and their relationships with their children going forward? Get the fuck outta here!

Kind of. More so that if great grandpa SS had a rough time in the war, that may have influenced his treatment of grandpa s. He’ll internalize that along with his own experiences and it’ll impact pappy ss and therefore SS, whether or not you’ve had any direct connection to any of these people.

Kids are resilient.

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SpiralStairs

Post subject: Re: Generational Trauma

Posted: Thu Jan 27, 2022 12:54 am

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Nardi wrote:

SpiralStairs wrote:

NWsider4-3-3 wrote:

SpiralStairs wrote:

Trauma breeds trauma.

Reading is a skill

Resiliency isn't a skill. It's in the DNA.

So it IS all predestination! Those Calvinists we’re way ahead of their time.

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Seacrest wrote:

The menstrual cycle changes among Hassidic Jewish women was something as well.

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SpiralStairs

Post subject: Re: Generational Trauma

Posted: Thu Jan 27, 2022 12:58 am

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Joe Orr Road Rod wrote:

This Ends in Antioch wrote:

SpiralStairs wrote:

This Ends in Antioch wrote:

SpiralStairs wrote:

I thought generational trauma was more about that stuff happening to a parent or grandparent or great-grandparent and ultimately impacting you.

Kids are resilient.

This is what parents say to absolve themselves of any responsibility for their own shitty behavior. To be sure, kids are smart and have a lot of resolve but they aren’t adults.

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Seacrest wrote:

The menstrual cycle changes among Hassidic Jewish women was something as well.

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good dolphin

Post subject: Re: Generational Trauma

Posted: Thu Jan 27, 2022 9:22 am

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SpiralStairs wrote:

Nardi wrote:

SpiralStairs wrote:

NWsider4-3-3 wrote:

SpiralStairs wrote:

Trauma breeds trauma.

Reading is a skill

Resiliency isn't a skill. It's in the DNA.

So it IS all predestination! Those Calvinists we’re way ahead of their time.

I think Sam Harris has headed a new atheistic predestination movement

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Nardi

Post subject: Re: Generational Trauma

Posted: Thu Jan 27, 2022 12:50 pm

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SpiralStairs wrote:

Nardi wrote:

SpiralStairs wrote:

NWsider4-3-3 wrote:

SpiralStairs wrote:

Trauma breeds trauma.

Reading is a skill

Resiliency isn't a skill. It's in the DNA.

So it IS all predestination! Those Calvinists we’re way ahead of their time.

I think there's something to the theory that God and Satan meet up at the club everyday to play poker.

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Seacrest

Post subject: Re: Generational Trauma

Posted: Fri Jan 28, 2022 7:47 am

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Joe Orr Road Rod wrote:

This Ends in Antioch wrote:

SpiralStairs wrote:

This Ends in Antioch wrote:

SpiralStairs wrote:

I thought generational trauma was more about that stuff happening to a parent or grandparent or great-grandparent and ultimately impacting you.

Kids are resilient.

So is trauma until it's resolved.

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The victims are the American People and the Republic itself.

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Brick

Post subject: Re: Generational Trauma

Posted: Fri Jan 28, 2022 7:49 am

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If this is true, do you think my kid is going to force my grandkids to wear masks to school?

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good dolphin

Post subject: Re: Generational Trauma

Posted: Fri Jan 28, 2022 9:10 am

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Brick wrote:

If this is true, do you think my kid is going to force my grandkids to wear masks to school?

His reaction to you is going to be to not have kids

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Nas

Post subject: Re: Generational Trauma

Posted: Fri Jan 28, 2022 10:08 am

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good dolphin wrote:

Brick wrote:

If this is true, do you think my kid is going to force my grandkids to wear masks to school?

His reaction to you is going to be to not have kids

Debatable

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Brick

Post subject: Re: Generational Trauma

Posted: Fri Jan 28, 2022 10:09 am

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good dolphin wrote:

Brick wrote:

If this is true, do you think my kid is going to force my grandkids to wear masks to school?

His reaction to you is going to be to not have kids

His loss. The best part about having kids is you win every argument.

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Seacrest

Post subject: Re: Generational Trauma

Posted: Fri Jan 28, 2022 11:02 am

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Brick wrote:

If this is true, do you think my kid is going to force my grandkids to wear masks to school?

I'm not convinced that wearing a mask to school is the traumatic part.

The over reaction of obsessive and neurotic adults is far more troubling to a child.

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The victims are the American People and the Republic itself.

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Frank Coztansa

Post subject: Re: Generational Trauma

Posted: Fri Jan 28, 2022 11:34 am

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Seacrest wrote:

So is trauma until it's resolved.

Homeless people with unresolved trauma out there because they want to be.

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Joe Orr Road Rod wrote:

It's more fun to be a victim

Caller Bob wrote:

There will never be an effective vaccine. I'll never get one anyway.

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BigW72

Post subject: Re: Generational Trauma

Posted: Fri Jan 28, 2022 11:35 am

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Seacrest wrote:

Brick wrote:

If this is true, do you think my kid is going to force my grandkids to wear masks to school?

I'm not convinced that wearing a mask to school is the traumatic part.

The over reaction of obsessive and neurotic adults is far more troubling to a child.

Not mutually exclusive. I'll say both are troubling / traumatic.

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2. Proper response would be to ask an endless series of follow ups until the person regrets having spoken to you in the first place.

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