I haven't really listened to this show in about three-and-a-half months, so I don't know if something had happened in that time, but the Gary hagiography has grown rather creepy from hosts and listeners alike. Check the facebook group. Lines like "When he called every week, you really felt like you knew him" strike me as particularly odd. Over the course of almost 300 Gary calls, I don't think I did. I knew there was some guy who resided in Evanston, grew up an Expos fan, watched westerns, and subjected himself to too much Skip Bayless and Michael Wilbon. So I was aware of him, but I didn't know what he did for a living, if he had family, why he liked the Expos (erstwhile Jewish Montrealer exiled by Loi 101?), or what he did in his free time other than feeling compelled to watch so much bad ESPN. After the fact, we learned a little more about him, some of which, like the Aspergian third-shift meticulous proofreading, makes him an interesting and almost sympathetic figure, but again, that's after the fact.
Then you have Dan getting over-defensive on Twitter, going all "don't tell us how to grieve! He wouldn't have wanted it any other way! We only mock the ones we love!", except what did they even do that could be considered out-of-bounds grieving, anyway? What's going on?
_________________ Molly Lambert wrote: The future holds the possibility to be great or terrible, and since it has not yet occurred it remains simultaneously both.
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