Beardown wrote:
Yeah. I agree. Once you're divorced twice, don't write an essay about the 3rd engagement and how in love you are. About how you know this is the right one. About how you figured it all out. You sound like an idiot. Because you haven't. So you got into the first 2 marriages not thinking the same thing?
Just say, with your background, it's a 50/50 chance. That should have been the essay. And don't have kids.
Spiegel is an insult to married people that stick it out. That work through their problems.
Not talking about me, obviously (White women hate me). But I know people that do it.
Spiegel is way too casual about this marriage thing. And if the girlfriend gives you a deadline, that's not a way to go about marriage. Shouldn't be a time clock on something so important. Shouldn't be a buzzer beater where you have to decide. It's not a game. A 6 month deadline is so random. But she gave it and he met the deadline. Explains why they've failed at marriage in that past.
To be honest, because he thought he was forced to beat the clock, this marriage is likely to fail.
The numbers on marriage 3 isn't pretty but if both have learned enough and grown then maybe they're on the path to success. It's all a crapshoot in the end.