veganfan21 wrote:
denisdman wrote:
If you have been through the tee ball up to high school leagues, it is obvious what happens. Kids get weeded out each year because the kids are bored playing, the kids are terrible, or the parents hate the experience.
By 12, very few kids from tee ball are still playing. Freshman year many of those kids show up to play, and they are too far behind to play credibly.
Are they terrible because they lack the experiences of playing with others? Everyone loves to hit and that's easy to do even if you're on your own. To really get good you need the experience of fielding ground balls, tracking down fly balls, and throwing people out at second. You need that often. You're not going to get that without having people to play with. Or you can just pay for it, which is not an option for the majority of people. I'm not surprised people from developing countries are on the rise because in less tech sophisticated places you still play outside. Over here kids are online.
Terrible comes in several variations.
Most notably, kids do not practice basic skills often enough. I started teaching my kids to hit and catch at three. By the time they played real ball, they were not backing out of the a batters box or turning their head when thrown a hard ball. Parents drop their kids off at tee ball and expect a volunteer coach to teach basic skills in a few practices. Parents have to get kids reps at home.
Some kids do not have the hand eye coordination or arm strength to truly compete against other kids. In that way, it is like most sports. Baseball players do not need to be athletic, but obviously speed and strength make a huge difference.
And then there is the mental aspect of what is a slow game and frustrating game. Does the child stay engaged? Do they recover from repeated failure? Are they motivated to work on weaknesses?
Parents would come up to me and ask to help with their kids because they could see the polish of my son. What they did not see is that we played catch every possible day and I threw buckets of balls several times per week. He had pitching and hitting lessons in the offseason. My daughter was decent player as well.
There is an incredible bond between a father and a son with baseball. I love the sport for that. I took him to game 3 of the Cubs World Series run. Amazing stuff.