Touche sir.

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The hell?

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Nice work, Hatchetman

LOL. i only posted that because I was consensused by Mr. Cairo as if that were a validation of opinion. Therefore I posted in kind.


Fair enough. I post what I really think and what I would really say. I don't always have the most popular opinion. I can't be that guy. I can't only say what other people will agree with because I'm afraid of saying the wrong thing to someone.

I'll say this though. After 4-5 years of reading KC go on and on about failed relationships, I was a bit taken aback by how quickly he would dispence relationship advice. No lie there. Of course there were others as well. But yeah, I thought it was... strange. Sorry if that is an opinion that I am not entitled to but there's nothing I said there that isn't very well known public information.

So there you go. I guess I'm totally evil and deserve death.

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What about advice from/for guys that have been married 10+ years AND have a new girlfriend?
Everyone else just STFU! Know nothing posing little bitches.

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No, but I'll get it when I take off my "away message".

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You do not talk to me like that! I work too hard to deal with this stuff! I work too hard! I'm an important member of the CSFMB! I drive a Dodge Stratus!

Out of fairness, just because someone is married doesn't make them an expert in matrimonial dealings by default.

Hank, slow down. I think you're getting all emotional here. I don't recall saying that most marriages were 100% anything at all.

I think that if you and your life love each other there's no need for "petty ass kissey" actions. I'll stand by that. I think buying the wife a flower or something like that is going to be the wrong thing to do... here I'll make it better here's a flower. Man up, apologize if you did something wrong and if there is genuine love there that should suffice... My wife, though she married me, isn't stupid and would know if I was being condescending or did something fabricatred to "show her I love her". That's my experience. I'll share that with you.

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Darkside, I had one failed relationship that I posted about on this board. One. And I regret ever doing it, mainly because of stuff like this.

This is all really fucked up man. I didn't think I did anything wrong in this thread by giving some of my thoughts.

You're making this very personal. Whatever man. You win.

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Simmer down, Susan. No need to be all "woe is me". It was douchey. But at least you finally admitted Cairo was one of the people you were talking about.

From the looks of your post, you should have been the only one to give advice anyway...

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Well that's like um your opinion man. So what if I was? Does that invalidate the point?

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Wow. I love you, son.

the cat in the cradle and the silver spoon, little boy blue and the man in the moon, when you coming home son I don't know when... we'll get together then...

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^Completely un-douchey and really helped with hatchetman's question.


c'mon, Darkside. You can't see this? This has to be a bit, right?

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So...yeah...that was a fun read...

...I'll refrain from giving advice in this thread, but when the "how do you show yourself that you love you?" thread is started, look out!

I'm not woe is me. I am sorry for using the blunt tool that is sarcasm. Of course cairo was one of the people I was talking about. He was, after all, unmarried and offering marital advice?

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Nobody is necessarily disagreeing with your point(s). Your initial post was said in a very "high horse" manner, thats all. I clearly wasn't the only one who took it that way.

If Seacrest or NSJ posted the same thing, they would have been questioned in the exact same way.

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It's not a bit. The point I was trying to make, which I didn't make very well, is that you shouldn't have to show her you love her. At least not with "take her to a date!" or "buy her a flower" or "Girls like chocolate".

Maybe I should have said that you should show her you love her by not fucking up in the first place. Show her you love her everyday by being good to her, not by trying to buy her off with petty material posessions or cheapened trinkets.

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Noted. Thank you.

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Cmon man, I know you're smart. Don't be like that.
I was talking about several posters. Cairo being one of them, but not specifically who I was talking to.

Is this a pile on like the kind you dispise? neat.

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You can, and should, learn a lot from a failed long term relationship. To say otherwise is just ignorant.

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No. Not really.

I just think it was kinda obvious and I see why KC responded how he did.


Lets focus on the real problem here: HatchetMan

Ok. Good point.

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I guess I assumed everything was always all good in your world since you said if you have to do anything but look at her and talk to her you are 'doing it wrong'. In my experience most women appreciate you going the extra mile and showing them that you realize you fucked up. Just because your wife may not be that way certainly doesnt mean the rest of the world is 'doing it wrong'. I'm not saying buying flowers fixes a problem but after a fight and things have calmed down or just out of the blue, flowers are nice way to show that she isnt taken for granted.

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Well. Since you aren't a guy who has ever done anything to ever upset your wife......ever, maybe you aren't qualified to give advice here.

Again. Your "advice" wasn't really advice at all it was more of a statement about how great your marriage is. I can't speak for Hatchetman, but that doesn't seem like the sort of thing he was searching for.

"Don't fuck up in the first place".

^ You did it again. Can't help it...

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Oky-doke. I leave you alone.

Pile on? Cop out...

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I'll go ahead and admit that I am surprised at how angry he is. In retrospect, I should have anticipated it. He has many times in the past jumped on me for things I've said. That being said, even if it was douchey, why take it and be so mad and hurt? I don't get it.

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Ok. That's a respectable opinion.

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I completely agree. If I make a douchey remark that inadvertantly specifically addresses a particular CSFMBWA member as being a poo-face, it is completely his fault for getting offended.